Healing Honeys (formerly OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball) 85 - How to date better: understanding chemistry vs. compatibility
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Apr 10, 2023 AI Snips
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Chemistry vs. Compatibility
- Chemistry feels good, but it doesn't guarantee a good relationship.
- We often confuse chemistry with compatibility, intensity with intimacy, and attention with intention.
Cultural Differences and Incompatibility
- Louise Rumball shares an experience with an ex-partner from a different cultural background.
- Their differing ambitions and life goals, stemming from their upbringing, created incompatibility despite strong love and chemistry.
Intense Butterflies and Anxiety
- If intense butterflies are accompanied by anxiety and an inability to feel calm, it's a sign of chemistry, not compatibility.
- Look for a sense of groundedness and safety, not just excitement.