If kids are important to you and you know that's something that you want, you need to ask that question straight away. A lot of times we overlook those things. If you're going to fall in love with someone from another country, are you okay with the fact that you may never live close to your family again? And I think that it's not to say that long distance relationships can't work. You just need to be very clear with yourself.
Understanding the difference between chemistry and compatibility can help us understand that just because it feels good, doesn’t mean it will be good. We confuse chemistry with compatibility, intensity with intimacy and attention with intention, without every talking about the foundations of what compatibility actually means.
Louise & therapist Dr. Tari Mack cover some game changing advice:
- The concepts of chemistry vs. compatibility
- Why love isn’t enough
- 6 signs of toxic chemistry (trauma bonding, breadcrumbing, toxic chemistry, rollercoaster dating, inconsistency, the anxious-avoidant cycle)
- Why you can’t sustain a relationship on just chemistry
- What compatibility is
- The 12 signs of chemistry that you need to establish to really see if you are a good match.
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