Anxious and avoidant is not a very compatible style. The more of these that you have, if I'm not mistaken, like the more likely it is that your relationship is going to be successful and long term. My conflict style is probably like volatile in this list that we're about to talk about. But yeah, my boyfriend and I are not compatible on this one. It took me a really long time to accept that, oh, you can't change them. Even if they want to change, it's going to be like a lifelong commitment to that.

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