Understanding the difference between chemistry and compatibility can help us understand that just because it feels good, doesn’t mean it will be good. We confuse chemistry with compatibility, intensity with intimacy and attention with intention, without every talking about the foundations of what compatibility actually means. Louise & therapist Dr. Tari Mack cover some game changing advice: The concepts of chemistry vs. compatibility Why love isn’t enough 6 signs of toxic chemistry (trauma bonding, breadcrumbing, toxic chemistry, rollercoaster dating, inconsistency, the anxious-avoidant cycle) Why you can’t sustain a relationship on just chemistry What compatibility is The 12 signs of chemistry that you need to establish to really see if you are a good match.  ------🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneyshttps://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating StoriesHEAL WITH LOUISE✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Tari Mack, a clinical psychologist specializing in toxic relationships, joins to unpack the complex dynamics of love gone wrong. She reveals how toxic relationships often disguise themselves as passion and excitement, leading to manipulation. They discuss signs of toxicity that frequently go unnoticed and emphasize the crucial role of setting boundaries early on. Dr. Mack also highlights the emotional toll of accepting disrespect and encourages open dialogue about feelings over accusations, offering insight into healthier communication.

Dr. Tari Mack, a clinical psychologist specializing in attachment styles and relationships, joins to unpack the Avoidant Attachment Style. They discuss whether avoidantly attached individuals are dodging love or vulnerability. Insights reveal the nuances between dismissive and fearful avoidants, and how childhood experiences shape these behaviors. Key topics include common triggers, the impact of emotional suppression on intimacy, and why communication gaps often arise in relationships. This engaging conversation sheds light on the struggle of finding genuine connection amidst avoidance.

Therapist Dr. Tari Mack joins Louise Rumball to discuss the complexities of meeting up with an ex. They explore motivations for wanting to meet, reflect on the healing journey, and emphasize the importance of expectations, intentions, and communication. They also delve into anger expression, closure, and finding connection within oneself. A sneak peek is given into the next episode on meeting up with an ex.

Dr. Tari Mack joins Louise Rumball to unravel the enigma of emotional unavailability. They discuss the meaning of emotional availability, the link between avoidant attachment and emotional unavailability, and the impact of childhood experiences on emotional expression. They also explore common fears associated with emotional unavailability and signs that may indicate one's own emotional unavailability.