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OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball and leading therapists

114 - HEARTBREAK - Meeting Up with an Ex - Intentions, Expectations, and Communication ft. Dr. Tari Mack

Sep 4, 2023
43:36
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Therapist Dr. Tari Mack joins Louise Rumball to discuss the complexities of meeting up with an ex. They explore motivations for wanting to meet, reflect on the healing journey, and emphasize the importance of expectations, intentions, and communication. They also delve into anger expression, closure, and finding connection within oneself. A sneak peek is given into the next episode on meeting up with an ex.
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Quick takeaways

  • Understanding intentions and motivations is crucial when considering meeting up with an ex, as it can involve seeking validation, closure, reconciliation, or revenge.
  • Before meeting up with an ex, evaluate your expectations and assess if it will hinder or support your healing process, considering potential disappointment and reopening old wounds.

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Importance of Understanding Intentions when Meeting Up with an Ex

When considering meeting up with an ex, it is crucial to understand your intentions and motivations. One common reason people want to meet with an ex is the hope of reconciling and getting back together. However, it is essential to be honest with yourself and communicate these intentions with the ex if that is the case. Seeking validation and an ego boost is another reason individuals may want to meet up, but this can be disempowering and lead to disappointment. Additionally, some may feel the desire to meet an ex to seek revenge or to show them what they are missing. It is important to recognize that revenge is not a healthy motivation and meeting up with this intention is not in your best interest.

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