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FBI Hostage Negotiator: The Art Of Negotiating To Get Everything You Want | Chris Voss

Jan 2, 2025
Chris Voss, a former FBI hostage negotiator and bestselling author, shares his expertise in high-stakes negotiation and communication. He delves into the psychology behind negotiation, highlighting the power of tactical empathy and why 'no' can lead to better outcomes. Listeners learn how to diffuse tension, build trust, and the crucial role of curiosity in effective communication. Voss also discusses the importance of emotional intelligence in navigating diverse perspectives and offers practical strategies for both business and personal interactions.
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  • Tactical empathy is a crucial negotiation strategy that fosters rapport by acknowledging emotions without agreeing, enhancing communication effectiveness.
  • Recognizing shared human emotions can bridge cultural divides, enabling better engagement and understanding in diverse negotiation contexts.

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The Power of Tactical Empathy

Tactical empathy is a proactive approach to listening that involves recognizing and validating the emotions of others without necessarily agreeing with them. It is rooted in understanding that individuals, regardless of their background or actions, share core human emotions. This method allows negotiators to build rapport and influence behavior by acknowledging feelings, which can defuse tension in high-stakes situations, such as hostage negotiations. By focusing on empathy rather than opposition, negotiators can unlock a deeper connection and foster dialogue even with those considered adversaries.

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