Refusing to be Accountable: Responsibility, Boundaries, Intervention and Punishment

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Introduction

00:00 • 3min

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Is There a Boundary?

03:04 • 2min

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In Relationships of Integrity and Conflict Avoidance

05:32 • 4min

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Is There a Difference Between Integrity and Breach?

09:13 • 3min

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What Are Imperative Boundaries?

11:44 • 4min

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Treat Others With Consideration

15:41 • 3min

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Dating Culture From Monogamous People - Is That True?

18:17 • 2min

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Is There Any Kind of Harm in Cancell Culture?

20:39 • 4min

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Anarchism

24:41 • 2min

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Cancel Culture

26:39 • 3min

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Responsibility in the World

30:06 • 2min

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Exactly What Are Your Boundaries?

31:44 • 2min

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Relationships - You Know Your Own Boundaries, Right?

33:44 • 2min

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The Responsibility to Repair When Things Have Goed Wrong

35:58 • 2min

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How to Take Responsibility in the Context of 12 Steps

38:23 • 3min

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The Importance of Refusing Accountability

41:28 • 4min

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Is There a Commitment to Community?

45:15 • 4min

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Is This a Breach or a Break?

49:40 • 3min

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Relationship Counseling - Is There a Boundary?

52:59 • 4min

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What Are Your Boundaries?

56:47 • 2min

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How Do You Know if You Have a Boundary?

58:37 • 6min

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Is There a Border Between Desires and Needs?

01:04:38 • 3min

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Is It Your Responsibility to Communicate Your Boundaries?

01:08:05 • 2min

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You Can't Just Enforce Your Own Boundaries, Right?

01:10:05 • 3min

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Cancel Culture Is Abuse

01:12:46 • 2min

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What Is Intervention Work?

01:14:31 • 2min

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Anarchism

01:16:52 • 6min

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Is There a Difference Between Free Speech and Censorship?

01:22:45 • 3min

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Is Intervention Appropriate for the Internet?

01:25:21 • 2min

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Are You Rounding Up People to Harass?

01:27:14 • 4min

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The Importance of Taking Away the Nice Things From Violence

01:30:55 • 3min

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The Importance of Intervention in the Nexus

01:33:33 • 4min

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Intervening on Domestic Violence Situations

01:37:41 • 2min

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Deescalate the Violence - It's Not Your Job to Tell

01:39:41 • 2min

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Do You Want to Help Domestic Violence Survivors?

01:41:41 • 4min

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Can't Call the Cops?

01:45:21 • 2min

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Punishment Is Not Intervention, Right?

01:47:11 • 2min

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How Do You Justify Punishment?

01:49:09 • 2min

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Survivor of Child Abuse?

01:51:13 • 2min

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Is Carceral Judgment the Same as Inclusion?

01:53:37 • 4min

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Transformative Justice - What's Your Lineage?

01:57:51 • 3min

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What Are Consequences and Punishment?

02:00:23 • 3min

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Cancel Culture Is Not Consequences

02:03:24 • 3min

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Cancel Culture Work That Way?

02:06:35 • 2min

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Fucking Cancel Has Two l'S Because We're Canadian

02:08:43 • 2min