Is There a Commitment to Community?

There is no compulsion at any stage and no mechanism to compel anyone to do anything. You're not defined by the worst things you've ever done. You're actually defined by your willingness to like be here and do this work, right? That's like an incredibly brave thing. And then you go into this whole process of looking at what was that like for the other person,. It can look different depending on the situation but it always includes ongoing change behavior. Usually includes a direct amends where you actually meet with the person like you asked their consent first to see if they want to do this. If they do, you explain to them your understanding of what happened, you express your remorse.