Jillian on Love
Jillian Turecki | QCODE
Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself. Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in, heal your heartbreak and choose better partners, develop a stronger sense of self, or move away from dysfunctional patterns into highly functioning ones this show is for you.Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has guided others on journeys toward fulfilling relationships.~~Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/bookJoin my community and membership, The Conscious WomanFollow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations~~Follow Jillian Turecki onInstagram: @jilliantureckiTik Tok: @jillian.tureckiTwitter: @JillianTureckiVisit her website at www.jillianturecki.com~~Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us!
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Jan 5, 2026 • 1h 7min
Anxiety: How to Not Sabotage a Healthy Relationship
Dive into the world of relationship anxiety as Jillian coaches a guest grappling with fears of losing love once the honeymoon phase fades. They unpack the reasons behind reassurance dwindling and how overthinking can sabotage connections. Discover tips on expressing gratitude, celebrating positive behaviors, and meeting each other's needs to strengthen bonds. With practical strategies to stay present in the relationship and manage anxieties, this discussion is packed with insights to help navigate love with confidence.
Dec 29, 2025 • 33min
Lust is Not the Same Thing as Love
In a thought-provoking discussion, the host delves into the painful confusion between lust and love, highlighting how intense chemistry can mislead our emotions. She shares insights on the addictive nature of feeling desired and the fantasy of finding 'the one.' The conversation explores the biochemical underpinnings of attraction and how childhood patterns often resurface in adult relationships. With practical coaching, listeners learn to prioritize character over charm and recognize the importance of clear communication in dating.
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Dec 22, 2025 • 33min
Stop Falling in Love With Their Potential
What if you're loving someone's potential instead of who they are? Explore how trying to change partners can lead to resentment and emotional burnout. Understand emotional capacity and how real change happens when the pain of staying the same becomes unbearable. Using an apple tree metaphor, examine your expectations in relationships. Jillian shares personal stories and offers insights on accountability, urging listeners to accept partners as they are or to reconsider the relationship altogether.
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Dec 15, 2025 • 48min
Stop Chasing: How to Date with Confidence
In a captivating coaching session, a listener grapples with uncertainty in her budding romance. They explore the complexities of calm chemistry versus intensity. Jillian emphasizes treating dating as data, analyzing slow texting patterns and missed intimacy cues. With practical advice, she encourages assertive flirting and setting personal boundaries. The conversation highlights the importance of confidence and continuing to date other people, transforming anxiety into empowered action. Tune in for actionable insights that make dating feel more adventurous!
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Dec 8, 2025 • 38min
The 5 Reasons You’re Attracted to Toxic People
Feeling drawn to toxic partners? Discover the five intriguing reasons behind this addiction. From the thrill of danger to the impact of low self-worth, Jillian shares personal stories and psychological insights. Learn how life context and boredom can perpetuate unhealthy relationships, and explore the importance of building a fulfilling life. Uncover ways to address commitment fears and reshape your romantic choices by understanding your emotional blueprints. It's all about clarity, self-compassion, and breaking free from harmful patterns.
Dec 1, 2025 • 35min
Is It Embarrassing to Have a Boyfriend?
The discussion centers on the cultural shift convincing women to hide their relationships, spurred by a viral article. Jillian delves into the jealousy and fear of judgment that lead women to shrink their happiness. She shares anecdotes about friend groups policing joy, emphasizing that celebrating love shouldn't undermine independence. The key message encourages women to own their joy, embrace vulnerability, and support each other rather than diminish themselves to fit in.
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Nov 24, 2025 • 35min
10 Hard Lessons That Will Change Your Love Life
Dive into ten hard love lessons that reshape your perspective on relationships. Discover why chemistry without emotional safety can spiral into chaos. Learn how sustaining passion takes effort and the importance of friendship. Uncover the power of daily habits over circumstances for happiness. Jillian emphasizes self-love, accountability, and the need to prioritize relationships over ego. Embrace the idea that love is a classroom for growth, urging you to bring your wise adult into every interaction.
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Nov 17, 2025 • 55min
How to Know When It's Time to Walk Away
A live coaching session delves into the challenges of ending a long-term marriage filled with guilt and confusion. The struggle over intimacy is highlighted when the husband suggests dating others to reignite their passion. Emotional turning points are revealed as feelings of rejection surface, prompting a deep discussion about self-advocacy and courageous conversations. Listeners are encouraged to confront their truths and reflect on the importance of honest communication in relationships.
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Nov 10, 2025 • 49min
Unmet Needs vs. Unrealistic Standards: How to Know the Difference
Dive into the complexities of love as Jillian unpacks the difference between unmet needs and unrealistic expectations. She explores how emotional projections can skew our perceptions of partners and the awakening effect that new connections can trigger. Listeners gain insight into the role of attachment and the importance of self-awareness. A heartfelt listener question on letting go of unrequited love prompts practical advice on overcoming obsession. Jillian emphasizes the need for internal fulfillment and recognizing personal patterns in relationships.
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Nov 3, 2025 • 37min
How to Get Over the Worst Heartbreak & Get Your Power Back
Heartbreak is reframed as a living grief, challenging the notion that you can just move on. Jillian shares her own story to highlight how trauma narratives can haunt us. Practical healing strategies include leaning on friends and therapy while rewriting the breakup story from multiple perspectives. She emphasizes self-care and recognizing lessons from past relationships to foster growth. Ultimately, it’s about transforming pain into purpose and choosing to integrate valuable lessons for a healthier future.
