Jillian on Love Lust is Not the Same Thing as Love
Dec 29, 2025
In a thought-provoking discussion, the host delves into the painful confusion between lust and love, highlighting how intense chemistry can mislead our emotions. She shares insights on the addictive nature of feeling desired and the fantasy of finding 'the one.' The conversation explores the biochemical underpinnings of attraction and how childhood patterns often resurface in adult relationships. With practical coaching, listeners learn to prioritize character over charm and recognize the importance of clear communication in dating.
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Chemistry Isn’t The Same As Love
- Lust and initial chemistry are distinct from love and often create a delusional infatuation with a projected ideal.
- Love is a sustained choice expressed through giving, caring, and prioritizing another's well-being alongside your own.
Danielle’s Chemistry That Crashed
- Danielle felt an intense early connection with Justin but he became distant and inconsistent, causing confusion and heartbreak.
- After asking him, she learned he was not ready for a relationship and had to let go despite strong chemistry.
Ask Directly And Protect Your Needs
- If someone repeatedly reschedules or avoids investing time, tell them what you've observed and ask for what you want.
- If they confirm they're not ready for a relationship, stop seeing them casually and protect your needs.