Jillian on Love Stop Chasing: How to Date with Confidence
Dec 15, 2025
In a captivating coaching session, a listener grapples with uncertainty in her budding romance. They explore the complexities of calm chemistry versus intensity. Jillian emphasizes treating dating as data, analyzing slow texting patterns and missed intimacy cues. With practical advice, she encourages assertive flirting and setting personal boundaries. The conversation highlights the importance of confidence and continuing to date other people, transforming anxiety into empowered action. Tune in for actionable insights that make dating feel more adventurous!
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Attachment To The Idea Harms Authenticity
- Early attachment to the idea of someone makes you less authentic and more anxious.
- Jillian warns that excitement can trigger retreat from honest communication.
Four Slow Dates With No Kiss
- Listener describes four slow, calm dates with no kiss and anxiety in the in-between times.
- She feels healthier with the slower pace but wonders if he is attracted or if it will progress.
See Slow Texting As Data
- Treat ambiguous texting or slow replies as data, not a crisis.
- Jillian says data could mean low interest or a passive style that requires extra work you shouldn't do.
