Jillian on Love Jay Shetty: When a Relationship is Beyond Repair
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Jan 26, 2026 
Jay Shetty, former monk turned author and coach who created Messy Love, joins to explore real-time relationship work. They discuss witnessing raw couple stories, using structured compassion with boundaries, learning new communication habits to replace accusation with feeling, and accepting partner ‘weather’ rather than trying to force change.
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See Coaching Live To Learn Real Repair
- Jay Shetty intentionally let listeners "sit in the room" to watch coaching happen in real time and witness the messiness of relationships.
- He believes seeing tools in practice teaches people more than abstract advice does.
Young Couple Rushed Past Foundations
- Jay describes Justin and Gladys as sweet but young, rushed into stages of relationship without foundational skills.
- He observed they needed patience, compassion, and time to build basic relationship tools.
Your Story Shapes Your Reality
- The story we tell about an event shapes our experience more than the event itself.
- Jay urges accepting someone's story while gently opening the possibility of another perspective.
