Jillian on Love The 5 Reasons You’re Attracted to Toxic People
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Dec 8, 2025 Feeling drawn to toxic partners? Discover the five intriguing reasons behind this addiction. From the thrill of danger to the impact of low self-worth, Jillian shares personal stories and psychological insights. Learn how life context and boredom can perpetuate unhealthy relationships, and explore the importance of building a fulfilling life. Uncover ways to address commitment fears and reshape your romantic choices by understanding your emotional blueprints. It's all about clarity, self-compassion, and breaking free from harmful patterns.
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Personal Story Of An Addictive Abusive Relationship
- Jillian Turecki recounts a year-long abusive relationship from her late twenties that she couldn't leave despite clear warning signs.
- She analyzes how attraction and her then-blueprint for relationships made chemistry override self-care.
Erotic Charge Thrives On Unavailability
- Sexual desire often intensifies when someone is unavailable or dangerous, making erotic charge a powerful glue.
- Desire mixes smell, timing, childhood blueprints, and context, so attraction isn't fully explainable or rational.
Analyze Context And Build A Fulfilling Life
- Get curious about the context that drew you to a harmful person and dissect what triggered the attraction.
- Build a fulfilling life so you stop returning to someone as a familiar distraction or comfort.
