

SelfHealers Soundboard
The Holistic Psychologist
A global, community-based healing experience created by Dr.Nicole LePera +Jenna Weakland. Each week, we host raw, unscripted, open conversations about the things we are REALLY dealing with on the journey of facing our pasts and becoming our best Selves. Together, as community, we create resonance with "strangers" around the world as we collectively witness our own triggers, habits, traumas, and inherent wisdom. This is, and always will be, an ad free experience. Subscribe to our SelfHealers Soundboard YouTube channel to view these weekly podcasts with (captioned) video and connect with us and each other in the comments. New episodes every Sunday at 12 PM PST.
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Jul 18, 2021 • 41min
Chapter 12: Emotional Maturity
On this episode, Dr. Nicole + Jenna talk about emotional maturity. You’ll learn why many of us are emotionally immature, how to become more mature, + how to have an overall better understanding of your own emotional state.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

Jul 11, 2021 • 51min
Chapter 11: Reparenting
Dive into the world of reparenting as Nicole and Jenna explore its necessity for adults seeking to heal childhood patterns. Learn how to meet your physical, emotional, and spiritual needs through the lens of compassionate parenting. They introduce the four pillars of reparenting and share practical habits for loving discipline. Techniques like deep belly breathing help regulate emotions, while the concept of 'stacking' enhances self-care routines. Discover the power of recovering childlike wonder and the nuances of reparenting within diverse cultural contexts.

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Jul 4, 2021 • 46min
Chapter 10: Boundaries
In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about all things boundaries. You’ll learn why boundaries are important, how to set them, and why they are the foundation of healthy relationships.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

Jun 27, 2021 • 39min
Chapter 9: Trauma Bonds
The hosts explore trauma bonds and their impact on relationships, discussing childhood origins and signs of trauma bonds. They also discuss the impact of denying reality in childhood and how it affects decision-making. The podcast touches on the impact of parental emotional regulation on adult coping skills, the role of past relationships, and the influence of attraction on trauma bonds.

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Jun 20, 2021 • 38min
Chapter 8: Ego Stories
In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about all things trauma bonds. If you’re in a trauma bond (most of us are!) you’ll learn how you got there and how healing is always possible.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

Jun 13, 2021 • 25min
Chapter 7: Meet Your Inner Child
Discover the essence of your inner child and why it deserves to be heard. Dive into the seven archetypes and learn how they shape your relationship patterns. Reparenting is key—acknowledge your inner child's needs for safety and connection. Engage in practical exercises like letter-writing and meditation to foster this relationship. Hear valuable tips on managing overwhelm and parenting while your inner child reacts to triggers. Unlocking these insights might just transform your approach to self-care and healing.

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Jun 6, 2021 • 46min
Chapter 6: The Power of Belief
This podcast explores the formation of beliefs in childhood, the impact of childhood experiences on beliefs, and how beliefs shape our perception. It also discusses the power of choice and perspective, as well as navigating familial closeness in stressful situations.

May 23, 2021 • 28min
Chapter 5: Mind Body Healing Practices
Dr. Nicole dives deep into mind-body healing practices, focusing on the crucial role of gut health as our second brain. She shares how sleep restores balance and the impact of breathwork on the vagus nerve for stress resilience. Movement is explored for building tolerance and reclaiming joy through play and presence. Listener questions touch on gut-related issues tied to emotions, and Nicole emphasizes the importance of holistic practices for overall wellness.

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May 16, 2021 • 58min
Chapter 4: Trauma Body
In this episode, you'll learn what the foundation of healing is, as well as some practical tools for you to begin your own healing journey.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

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May 9, 2021 • 1h 46min
Chapter 3: A New Theory of Trauma
In episode 4 of 14 of HOW TO DO THE WORK Masterclass, Dr. Nicole LePera and Co-Host Jenna Weakland introduce Dr. Nicole’s #1 New York Times Best Seller HOW TO DO THE WORK: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self. This is a chapter-by-chapter class in which we dive deep into each topic. In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna speak about the expanded definition of trauma. Together, they answer questions about relationships, safety, and emotionally unavailable caregivers.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/


