

I Wish You Knew
Adam Lane Smith & Andrey Korikov
Join the duo, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist, as they cut through the noise with bold, unfiltered discussions on love, connection, and relationships.
From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all.
If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up and get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about relationships!
From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all.
If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up and get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about relationships!
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Jan 10, 2025 • 1h 16min
Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist
In this insightful session, an attachment specialist coaches a couple through their relationship struggles. They explore the nuances of avoidant and anxious attachment styles. Key techniques are shared for fostering emotional safety and resolving conflicts before they escalate. Hormonal cycles are discussed, highlighting their impact on communication. The couple learns about self-regulation and practical strategies to enhance intimacy and trust. This candid dialogue offers transformative tools for anyone navigating similar relational dynamics.

Jan 3, 2025 • 1h 13min
#1 Advice From Men’s Dating Coach: Modern Women Want THIS
🎙️ In this insightful episode, Jamie, a men’s dating coach who specializes in helping men build authentic connections and attract emotionally secure women, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and cofounder of Veritas Creative Media, to break down the hidden dynamics of modern dating and why so many men are struggling to find lasting relationships.
Jamie shares her expertise on what healthy women truly want, why most men fail in dating, and actionable strategies to stand out in a crowded, confusing dating world. This episode is perfect for men who want to attract secure women, understand what's been holding them back in dating, and navigate modern dating without gimmicks or games.
✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨:
👉 Why men today fear rejection more than ever, and how it’s holding them back in dating
👉 How social media fear-mongering fuels anxiety for both men and women in relationships
👉 The role fear and pornography play in creating unrealistic expectations about intimacy
👉 Why rebuilding a sense of community is essential for healthy dating and relationships
👉 How the internet facilitates communication but hinders authentic, meaningful relationships
👉 Why men crave understanding and connection and how effective communication can build trust and safety
This episode is a must-listen for men looking to navigate modern dating, overcome fear and rejection, and build meaningful connections based on trust and authenticity. Discover how to attract emotionally secure women, redefine success in relationships, and create a fulfilling dating life rooted in genuine connection. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where Dr. Orion Taraban Unveils the Future of Marriage:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQ_YYlJVLjE
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
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Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro
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The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

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Dec 27, 2024 • 1h 27min
Sathiya Sam UNVEILS The ONLY Way To End An Addiction
Sathiya Sam, an addiction recovery coach specializing in guiding men through addictive behaviors, joins Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korikov. They delve into the emotional roots of addiction, highlighting how trauma and unmet needs often fuel these behaviors. Sathiya emphasizes the significance of emotional awareness and supportive networks for lasting recovery. The discussion includes transformative approaches to healing, shifting identities from addiction to authentic living, and critiquing traditional mental health models in favor of coaching.

Dec 20, 2024 • 1h 17min
Larry Hagner Reveals The Digital Dangers Your Kids Face DAILY
🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by Larry Hagner, founder of "The Dad Edge," for a powerful conversation about the realities of fatherhood in the digital age, the dangers your children face online, and the truth about modern fatherhood that most men are missing.
Larry, Adam, and Andrey discuss why being a dad is more than just providing financially, how real connection matters more than ever, and why your presence is your child’s greatest asset. This is a must-watch for every father wanting to step up and protect their family in a world that’s more dangerous than it seems.
This is a raw and eye-opening conversation that challenges what it means to be a father in today’s world. It’s not an easy discussion, but it’s a critical one for fathers who want to protect, connect, and build a stronger family bond.
✨ Key Lessons Every Father Needs to Hear ✨:
👉 How to protect your kids from digital addictions before it’s too late.
👉 Why your kids need your presence—not your paycheck.
👉 The hidden dangers of modern fatherhood that no one talks about.
👉 Why fathers are burning out—and how to stop the cycle.
👉 How porn is affecting your relationship with your kids and spouse.
👉 Tips to be present, connected, and stress-free in your fatherhood journey.
Tune in for a powerful and transformative experience that will stick with you long after the episode ends. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Why Are Modern Men So Miserable? Andrew Shaw Reveals the Shocking Truth’
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=homn2lL2qo4&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/
Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

Dec 13, 2024 • 1h 13min
Homeschool Mom WARNS About Public Schools’ Dark Secrets
🎙️ In this eye-opening episode of I Wish You Knew, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Claire Denault, a 2nd-generation homeschool mom, dive into the controversial topic of public schooling vs. homeschooling.
From the emotional toll of standardized education to the psychological impact of traditional schooling, Claire and Adam reveal why homeschooling might just be the solution to a broken system. They discuss the trauma children face from being forced into one-size-fits-all education models, and why many kids are leaving school with damaged self-esteem, unmet needs, and a lack of emotional security.
Whether you’re already homeschooling or just thinking about it, you don’t want to miss this powerful conversation about the real cost of public schooling and how we can create safer, more secure learning environments for our kids.
✨ Can’t Miss Moments ✨
👉 How public schools are failing kids emotionally, academically, and socially, and impacting their future.
👉 The hidden dangers of forcing children to fit into a standardized system and how it creates long-term emotional harm.
👉 Why homeschooling is the antidote to a broken school system, offering a healthier and more personalized approach to learning.
👉 How to recognize the signs of emotional damage in your child and how to support them with attachment-based parenting strategies.
👉 Practical steps you can take now to create a learning environment that nurtures your child’s emotional and psychological needs.
WATCH NOW to learn the truth about how the school system is impacting your child—and what you can do to protect them. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where Alex Clark on The Surprising Truths About SSRIs, Equality & The War on Kids:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=shared&v=Hg6gfWmbFNY
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/
Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

Dec 6, 2024 • 59min
LMFT Exposes Dysfunctional Families & Toxic Positivity
🎙️ In this raw and honest episode, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, team up with renowned radically honest psychotherapist Whitney Goodman to explore the complex world of dysfunctional families.
They delve deep into the heart of toxic positivity, generational trauma, and the impact of permissive and authoritarian parenting styles. Whitney shares her unique perspective on how these dynamics can shape our relationships, careers, and overall well-being.
✨ Key Highlights You Can’t Miss ✨:
👉 How toxic positivity can mask deeper issues and hinder emotional growth
👉 Strategies for healing and breaking free from generational trauma.
👉 How childhood experiences shape our attachment patterns.
👉 How unresolved past trauma, lack of boundaries, or unaddressed grievances impact parent-child relationships.
👉 The evolving role of therapy and its limitations in addressing modern issues because of one-size-fits-all solutions.
👉 Predictions about therapy's future role
This episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to understand the impact of family dynamics, childhood experiences, emotional suppression, and wants to create healthier relationships. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where Teal Swan Brutally Dissects Modern Therapy & Healing:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWxUn_3ffa4
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/
Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

Nov 29, 2024 • 1h 43min
Fixing The Avoidant Man Part 2
🎙️ In this emotionally charged episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, a high-achieving CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive deeper into the journey of overcoming avoidant attachment and breaking free from past traumas. Andrey opens up like never before, reflecting on the ghosts of his past, the challenges of building trust, and the small but significant steps he's taking to reclaim connection and intimacy in his relationships.
From confronting the pain of childhood in post-Soviet Russia to navigating the complexities of trust with loved ones, this raw and unfiltered conversation is a powerful exploration of healing, growth, and the path to creating secure relationships. Adam offers insights, challenges Andrey's perspectives, and provides actionable steps for anyone struggling with attachment issues or relationship barriers.
✨ What You’ll Discover in This Episode ✨
👉 The internal battles faced by avoidant individuals, such as fear of intimacy, difficulty expressing emotions, and the pain of feeling misunderstood.
👉 Why childhood coping mechanisms can block healthy relationships today—and how to move past them.
👉 Practical steps to open up and see vulnerability as a strength, not a weakness.
👉 Why meaningful relationships are crucial for breaking avoidant patterns.
👉 Actionable advice and techniques for rewiring the brain to embrace emotional closeness and create a secure foundation for future relationships.
Whether you’re working through your own attachment challenges or seeking to better understand the dynamics of avoidant behavior, this episode is packed with relatable stories, transformative lessons, and a reminder that healing happens one conversation at a time. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where The Attachment Specialist Helps Avoidant Man Face Trust Issues LIVE:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfPgVg08E-E
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/
Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

Nov 22, 2024 • 1h 39min
Fixing The Avoidant Man Part 1
🎙️ In this revealing episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, a high-achieving CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive deep into the hidden struggles of avoidant attachment, guilt, and self-worth among high performers.
Adam guides Andrey through the deep, uncomfortable realities of living with avoidant attachment as a leader and the hidden emotional costs that come with high achievement. Andrey bravely opens up about the relentless guilt and inability to feel proud of his accomplishments, a common struggle among avoidant high-achievers.
This episode isn’t just a coaching session; it’s a powerful look at the sacrifices high-achieving avoidants make and an invitation for anyone seeking genuine connection to step out of avoidance and into a more fulfilling way of life.
✨ Key Highlights You Can’t Miss ✨:
👉 Why high-achieving avoidants feel trapped in their own success, and the silent guilt they carry.
👉 How Andrey’s relentless drive as a CEO is impacting his relationships, and why he can’t stop.
👉 The real cost of avoidant attachment: How trying to “protect” loved ones can lead to losing them or scaring them.
👉 How dissociating to stay strong can backfire, leading to burnout, detachment, and early death.
👉 The unexpected impact of emotional vulnerability and secure attachment in business, and why it matters in the workplace.
Get ready for raw truths and powerful insights on how avoidant attachment can shape, and sometimes sabotage, the lives of high achievers. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where The Attachment Specialist Helps Avoidant Man Face Trust Issues LIVE:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfPgVg08E-E
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/
Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

Nov 15, 2024 • 1h 47min
Inside the Minds of CEOs Who See Emotions as Threats
🎙️ Are emotions a liability for leaders? In this eye-opening episode, Brian Goldstein, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith unpack the surprising truth about why avoidant attachment styles just might be a leader’s secret weapon. If you've ever wondered how top CEOs manage to stay cool under pressure, build high-performing teams, and still get results, this conversation is for you.
Brian, Adam, and Andrey keep it real with stories from the field, so you’ll walk away with fresh insights on managing people, tackling burnout, and making the tough calls that drive results. Whether you're an executive, entrepreneur, or just curious about the psychology of leadership, get ready for one of the most refreshingly honest conversations on leadership out there.
✨ Key Highlights You Can’t Miss ✨:
👉 Why some CEOs believe showing feelings is a liability and how this mindset impacts workplace culture.
👉 Brian Goldstein’s ruthless approach to leadership, and his perspective on why empathy has its limits.
👉 Why top executives believe turning off emotions is crucial, even at the expense of personal relationships.
👉 Why CEOs need emotional resilience to build lasting, productive relationships.
👉 Why attachment struggles lead many leaders to a lonely path, driving them away from loved ones and close connections.
👉 How understanding attachment styles can reshape a leader’s approach to business and life.
Get ready for a revealing look at the emotional sacrifices behind high achievement, as successful CEOs open up about the real price of leadership. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Greg Witz on the Real Reason Leaders Struggle with Team Dynamics’
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=shared&v=55rzJ_qU2uw
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/
Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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Nov 8, 2024 • 1h 19min
What Happens When an Avoidant Man Falls in Love
🎙️ In this revealing episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, reconnects with a returning guest with an avoidant attachment style. This time, he opens up about his relationship.
Adam and his client dive deep into the intense struggles avoidant men face when it comes to trust, vulnerability, and building genuine connections. Kimmi shares the breakthrough moments that led him to realize he isn’t a “bad person” for being guarded, and how opening up has become both a terrifying and rewarding journey.
This isn’t just another talk about attachment—it’s an honest look at how fear, trust, and co-regulation play into love and relationships.
✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨:
👉 Why opening up feels like losing control for avoidant men.
👉 The moment an avoidant man realizes he might actually want a committed relationship.
👉 Why avoidants test their partners, and how it sabotages true connection.
👉 How co-regulation with a supportive partner can help an avoidant man let down his guard.
👉 What it takes for an avoidant man to finally feel safe, secure, and supported.
👉 Why avoidants keep relationships at arm’s length, and what finally made Kimmi reconsider.
👉 The unexpected relief (and fear) that comes with trusting someone fully.
Tune in to gain insights into the internal experiences of avoidant men and learn actionable steps to cultivate deeper emotional intimacy. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our previous episode where Adam helps Kimmi face his trust issues in a LIVE coaching session:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfPgVg08E-E&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast
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