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I Wish You Knew

Kelly Chase & Adam Lane Smith: Why I Said No at the Altar

May 16, 2025
01:23:35

In this episode, Kelly Chase from Love Is Blind (Season 1) opens up about her journey from heartbreak and self-abandonment to healing, boundaries, and self-love. She shares what led her to go on the show, what she learned from the experience, and what she's looking for now in love, life, and relationships.

✨ Topics Covered:
👉 Why Kelly went on Love Is Blind and what she hoped to find
👉 The hidden reasons people stay in unhealthy relationships
👉 Her “aha” moment after the show ended
👉 What healthy ambition and partnership mean to her
👉 Dating challenges in today’s world—ghosting, emotional unavailability, and more
👉 Why looks aren’t enough and the power of personality
👉 The emotional cost of people-pleasing and external validation
👉 Navigating modern dating with healed energy and clearer boundaries
👉 What women truly want versus what society pushes
👉 Kelly's real talk on being loved with baggage—not despite it

Kelly’s story is a powerful reminder that healing takes courage, and love begins with the relationship you have with yourself. If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating cycles, this episode will speak to your heart.

Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’  https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc 

Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com 

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The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

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