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Jan 24, 2025 • 1h 15min

The #1 Reason Most Relationships Fail (And How to Avoid It)

🎙️In this powerful episode of I Wish You Knew Podcast, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, sits down with Axel and Chelby, a couple who faced the emotional turmoil of a breakup, only to come back together stronger than ever. With the help of the attachment specialist they explore the hidden dynamics of breakups, how attachment issues played a role in their separation, and how they navigated living together after calling it quits. This episode uncovers the importance of space, communication, and understanding attachment patterns in relationships—especially after a breakup. We dive deep into the psychological impact of breakups, the fear of history repeating itself, and how a breakup doesn’t have to be the end. Discover how healing is possible even after the most painful moments, and what it really takes to rebuild trust and love. ✨ Key Moments ✨: 👉 The hidden dynamics behind breakups and how they can be avoided. 👉 Why emotional shutdowns and high stress levels often trigger breakups. 👉 How communication (or lack thereof) can make or break your relationship during challenging times. 👉 The role of hormones (like cortisol and oxytocin) in managing stress and emotional connections. 👉 Why conscious decision-making is critical to preventing a repeat breakup in the future. 👉 How attachment styles impact the way you handle relationship stress. 👉 The importance of creating space and boundaries during emotional chaos. Axel and Chelby share their raw, personal journey through emotional exhaustion, feelings of being trapped, and ultimately rediscovering their connection. Join us as we explore how relationships can evolve after a breakup, and learn how to create emotional clarity and healing from attachment wounds. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QiPEH0o3EKA&ab_  A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.  Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/  Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809  -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro  -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
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Jan 17, 2025 • 1h 18min

Danielle Silverstein on Why Women Initiate 70% of Divorces

🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week’s eye-opening episode features Danielle Silverstein who dives deep with the hosts into the real challenges of marriage—beyond the perfect Instagram photos and couple goals. From hidden struggles to painful secrets, we’re revealing what actually happens behind closed doors in relationships.   Danielle, Adam, and Andrey share their personal journey through hardship, loss, and the strain of balancing kids, careers, and a relationship. It’s raw, real, and packed with powerful advice that could change the way you view your own relationship.   Whether you're in a relationship, struggling in your marriage, or just curious about the behind-the-scenes truth, this episode is a must-watch. Don’t miss it—your love life may never be the same again.    ✨ Key Moments ✨: 👉 The importance of supporting each other as a team, particularly in parenting and marriage. 👉 How to avoid resentment from building up in your relationship. 👉 How to maintain the relationship, despite external pressures and distractions. 👉 How to rebuild your marriage and keep it thriving through the hard times. 👉 How different attachment styles (anxious, avoidant) affect romantic relationships. 👉 How a lack of transparency can tear your marriage apart.   This is not your typical relationship advice. Tune in as we break down common myths, share personal stories, and give you actionable tips to make your relationship stronger than ever. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QiPEH0o3EKA&ab_    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/  Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Danielle Silverstein: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://www.marriageandmartinis.com/  Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/marriageandmartinis/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marriageandmartinis/  Threads:   https://www.threads.net/@marriageandmartinis  Spotify:     https://open.spotify.com/show/6yOFLuFSKGEEfbyNYgFOD8?si=e856e808cdf04603  Apple:       https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-and-martinis/id1409173457      -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/  Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en  The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. 
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Jan 10, 2025 • 1h 16min

Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist

🎙️ Welcome to this transformative episode of "I Wish You Knew" featuring Adam Lane Smith, attachment specialist, as he LIVE coaches a married couple on the path to a blissful marriage. Join us as we watch a married couple navigate their relationship struggles with Adam's coaching—an intimate, raw look at attachment styles, communication breakdowns, and how to heal emotional wounds that have festered for years. In this episode, Adam helps a couple tackle their core issues—his avoidant behavior and her anxious attachment. Through real, on-the-spot coaching, they uncover powerful strategies to break the cycle of emotional disconnect and build a stronger, more secure relationship. ✨ Key Insights From This Coaching Session ✨: 👉 Why avoidant partners shut down—and how to get them to open up. 👉 The powerful technique to restore emotional safety in your marriage. 👉 How to overcome fear of rejection and build emotional safety. 👉 The secret to resolving small conflicts before they grow. 👉 How hormonal cycles (like PMS) can impact communication—and how to navigate them. 👉 How attachment styles affect conflict and connection in marriage. 👉 Tools for self-regulation and co-regulation to improve emotional stability. 👉 Practical tips to foster trust, connection, and intimacy in your relationship.   This is a must-watch for anyone in an anxious-avoidant relationship or anyone struggling to understand their partner's emotional needs. Tune in for real solutions that will leave you with a fresh perspective on healing your relationship. 🎧   If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘What Happens When an Avoidant Man Falls in Love’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T7pHG6fHfRw&ab    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/   Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/    Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith  Threads:   https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. 
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Jan 3, 2025 • 1h 13min

#1 Advice From Men’s Dating Coach: Modern Women Want THIS

🎙️ In this insightful episode, Jamie, a men’s dating coach who specializes in helping men build authentic connections and attract emotionally secure women, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and cofounder of Veritas Creative Media, to break down the hidden dynamics of modern dating and why so many men are struggling to find lasting relationships.   Jamie shares her expertise on what healthy women truly want, why most men fail in dating, and actionable strategies to stand out in a crowded, confusing dating world. This episode is perfect for men who want to attract secure women, understand what's been holding them back in dating, and navigate modern dating without gimmicks or games.   ✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 Why men today fear rejection more than ever, and how it’s holding them back in dating 👉 How social media fear-mongering fuels anxiety for both men and women in relationships 👉 The role fear and pornography play in creating unrealistic expectations about intimacy 👉 Why rebuilding a sense of community is essential for healthy dating and relationships 👉 How the internet facilitates communication but hinders authentic, meaningful relationships 👉 Why men crave understanding and connection and how effective communication can build trust and safety This episode is a must-listen for men looking to navigate modern dating, overcome fear and rejection, and build meaningful connections based on trust and authenticity. Discover how to attract emotionally secure women, redefine success in relationships, and create a fulfilling dating life rooted in genuine connection. 🎧   If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where Dr. Orion Taraban Unveils the Future of Marriage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQ_YYlJVLjE    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/  Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Jamie Date: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://www.jamiedatecoaching.com/  YouTube:   https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvBE9J1LcvDu9zcEqnr1q-w  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamiedate/  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@jamiedate Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/@jamiebdate/  -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website:      https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube:     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X:  https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/  Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en  The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. 
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Dec 27, 2024 • 1h 27min

Sathiya Sam UNVEILS The ONLY Way To End An Addiction

Sathiya Sam, an addiction recovery coach specializing in guiding men through addictive behaviors, joins Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korikov. They delve into the emotional roots of addiction, highlighting how trauma and unmet needs often fuel these behaviors. Sathiya emphasizes the significance of emotional awareness and supportive networks for lasting recovery. The discussion includes transformative approaches to healing, shifting identities from addiction to authentic living, and critiquing traditional mental health models in favor of coaching.
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Dec 20, 2024 • 1h 17min

Larry Hagner Reveals The Digital Dangers Your Kids Face DAILY

🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by Larry Hagner, founder of "The Dad Edge," for a powerful conversation about the realities of fatherhood in the digital age, the dangers your children face online, and the truth about modern fatherhood that most men are missing.   Larry, Adam, and Andrey discuss why being a dad is more than just providing financially, how real connection matters more than ever, and why your presence is your child’s greatest asset. This is a must-watch for every father wanting to step up and protect their family in a world that’s more dangerous than it seems.   This is a raw and eye-opening conversation that challenges what it means to be a father in today’s world. It’s not an easy discussion, but it’s a critical one for fathers who want to protect, connect, and build a stronger family bond.  ✨ Key Lessons Every Father Needs to Hear ✨: 👉 How to protect your kids from digital addictions before it’s too late. 👉 Why your kids need your presence—not your paycheck. 👉 The hidden dangers of modern fatherhood that no one talks about. 👉 Why fathers are burning out—and how to stop the cycle. 👉 How porn is affecting your relationship with your kids and spouse. 👉 Tips to be present, connected, and stress-free in your fatherhood journey. Tune in for a powerful and transformative experience that will stick with you long after the episode ends. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Why Are Modern Men So Miserable? Andrew Shaw Reveals the Shocking Truth’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=homn2lL2qo4&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/  Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Larry Hagner: --------------------------------------------------   Website:    https://thedadedge.com/about/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyS9kQOWK-BOF2N2A3Sn8ag  Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thedadedge/?hl=en  LinkedIn:   https://www.linkedin.com/in/larry-hagner-a82b8715  Spotify:     https://open.spotify.com/show/5btMGyD52czW0RZNOooBhK  Apple:       https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-dad-edge-podcast/id986223478       -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/  Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en  The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. 
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Dec 13, 2024 • 1h 13min

Homeschool Mom WARNS About Public Schools’ Dark Secrets

🎙️ In this eye-opening episode of I Wish You Knew, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Claire Denault, a 2nd-generation homeschool mom, dive into the controversial topic of public schooling vs. homeschooling.   From the emotional toll of standardized education to the psychological impact of traditional schooling, Claire and Adam reveal why homeschooling might just be the solution to a broken system. They discuss the trauma children face from being forced into one-size-fits-all education models, and why many kids are leaving school with damaged self-esteem, unmet needs, and a lack of emotional security.   Whether you’re already homeschooling or just thinking about it, you don’t want to miss this powerful conversation about the real cost of public schooling and how we can create safer, more secure learning environments for our kids.   ✨ Can’t Miss Moments ✨   👉 How public schools are failing kids emotionally, academically, and socially, and impacting their future. 👉 The hidden dangers of forcing children to fit into a standardized system and how it creates long-term emotional harm. 👉 Why homeschooling is the antidote to a broken school system, offering a healthier and more personalized approach to learning. 👉 How to recognize the signs of emotional damage in your child and how to support them with attachment-based parenting strategies. 👉 Practical steps you can take now to create a learning environment that nurtures your child’s emotional and psychological needs. WATCH NOW to learn the truth about how the school system is impacting your child—and what you can do to protect them. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where Alex Clark on The Surprising Truths About SSRIs, Equality & The War on Kids: https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=shared&v=Hg6gfWmbFNY    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/  Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Claire Denault: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://liveleaflearn.com/  YouTube:   https://www.youtube.com/@liveleaflearn  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/live.leaf.learn Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/Live.Leaf.Learn    -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website:      https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube:     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X:  https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/  Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en  The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. 
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Dec 6, 2024 • 59min

LMFT Exposes Dysfunctional Families & Toxic Positivity

🎙️ In this raw and honest episode, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, team up with renowned radically honest psychotherapist Whitney Goodman to explore the complex world of dysfunctional families.   They delve deep into the heart of toxic positivity, generational trauma, and the impact of permissive and authoritarian parenting styles. Whitney shares her unique perspective on how these dynamics can shape our relationships, careers, and overall well-being.   ✨ Key Highlights You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 How toxic positivity can mask deeper issues and hinder emotional growth 👉 Strategies for healing and breaking free from generational trauma.  👉 How childhood experiences shape our attachment patterns. 👉 How unresolved past trauma, lack of boundaries, or unaddressed grievances impact parent-child relationships.  👉 The evolving role of therapy and its limitations in addressing modern issues because of one-size-fits-all solutions. 👉 Predictions about therapy's future role   This episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to understand the impact of family dynamics, childhood experiences, emotional suppression, and wants to create healthier relationships. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where Teal Swan Brutally Dissects Modern Therapy & Healing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWxUn_3ffa4    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/  Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Whitney Goodman : -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://sitwithwhit.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sitwithwhit   Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@whitneygoodmanlmft/  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/sitwithwhit  Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/sitwithwhitney/  LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/whitneylhawkins  -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website:      https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube:     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X:  https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/  Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en  The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. 
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Nov 29, 2024 • 1h 43min

Fixing The Avoidant Man Part 2

🎙️ In this emotionally charged episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, a high-achieving CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive deeper into the journey of overcoming avoidant attachment and breaking free from past traumas. Andrey opens up like never before, reflecting on the ghosts of his past, the challenges of building trust, and the small but significant steps he's taking to reclaim connection and intimacy in his relationships.   From confronting the pain of childhood in post-Soviet Russia to navigating the complexities of trust with loved ones, this raw and unfiltered conversation is a powerful exploration of healing, growth, and the path to creating secure relationships. Adam offers insights, challenges Andrey's perspectives, and provides actionable steps for anyone struggling with attachment issues or relationship barriers.   ✨ What You’ll Discover in This Episode ✨   👉 The internal battles faced by avoidant individuals, such as fear of intimacy, difficulty expressing emotions, and the pain of feeling misunderstood. 👉 Why childhood coping mechanisms can block healthy relationships today—and how to move past them. 👉 Practical steps to open up and see vulnerability as a strength, not a weakness. 👉 Why meaningful relationships are crucial for breaking avoidant patterns. 👉 Actionable advice and techniques for rewiring the brain to embrace emotional closeness and create a secure foundation for future relationships. Whether you’re working through your own attachment challenges or seeking to better understand the dynamics of avoidant behavior, this episode is packed with relatable stories, transformative lessons, and a reminder that healing happens one conversation at a time. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where The Attachment Specialist Helps Avoidant Man Face Trust Issues LIVE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfPgVg08E-E    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/  Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website:      https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube:     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X:  https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/  Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en  The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. 
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Nov 22, 2024 • 1h 39min

Fixing The Avoidant Man Part 1

🎙️ In this revealing episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, a high-achieving CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive deep into the hidden struggles of avoidant attachment, guilt, and self-worth among high performers.   Adam guides Andrey through the deep, uncomfortable realities of living with avoidant attachment as a leader and the hidden emotional costs that come with high achievement. Andrey bravely opens up about the relentless guilt and inability to feel proud of his accomplishments, a common struggle among avoidant high-achievers.   This episode isn’t just a coaching session; it’s a powerful look at the sacrifices high-achieving avoidants make and an invitation for anyone seeking genuine connection to step out of avoidance and into a more fulfilling way of life.   ✨ Key Highlights You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 Why high-achieving avoidants feel trapped in their own success, and the silent guilt they carry. 👉 How Andrey’s relentless drive as a CEO is impacting his relationships, and why he can’t stop. 👉 The real cost of avoidant attachment: How trying to “protect” loved ones can lead to losing them or scaring them. 👉 How dissociating to stay strong can backfire, leading to burnout, detachment, and early death. 👉 The unexpected impact of emotional vulnerability and secure attachment in business, and why it matters in the workplace.   Get ready for raw truths and powerful insights on how avoidant attachment can shape, and sometimes sabotage, the lives of high achievers. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where The Attachment Specialist Helps Avoidant Man Face Trust Issues LIVE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfPgVg08E-E    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/  Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website:      https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube:     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X:  https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/  Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en  The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

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