

I Wish You Knew
Adam Lane Smith & Andrey Korikov
Join the duo, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist, as they cut through the noise with bold, unfiltered discussions on love, connection, and relationships.
From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all.
If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up and get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about relationships!
From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all.
If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up and get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about relationships!
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Nov 1, 2024 • 1h 8min
Gen Z’s Outlook on Gender Roles, Dating, and Marriage With Kenzie Carter
In this heartfelt and insightful interview, Kenzie Carter shares her journey from dating to engagement, revealing the secrets to building a deep, fulfilling relationship that stands the test of time. From early conversations about values to navigating conflicts with love and respect, Kenzie discusses what truly matters in a partnership. She offers her perspective on why so many relationships struggle, the importance of open communication, and how she and her fiancé foster mutual trust, respect, and affection.
Throughout, Kenzie opens up about how she knew her fiancé was "the one," the crucial role of a shared belief system, and the power of consistency in love. We also explore why more young women should express respect and admiration for their partners, and why showing appreciation matters in both big and small moments.
Join us for an in-depth look at creating authentic love, bridging generational gaps in understanding relationships, and finding joy and support in the journey of life together. Whether you're looking for relationship advice, inspiration, or just want to see real love in action, this conversation with Kenzie will leave you moved and inspired.
If you enjoyed this episode, you would probably love our episode on Avoidant Attachment: https://youtu.be/yqnQ4vCsOAY
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
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Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/
Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro
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YouTube: @TheKenzieCarter
The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

Oct 25, 2024 • 1h 40min
Why Quitting Therapy Was Necessary for The Attachment Specialist
🎙️ In this bold episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, tackle the broken therapy system and why Adam walked away from it.
Adam and Andrey explore the uncomfortable truths about traditional therapy practices, how they often leave people stuck without real solutions, and the importance of having a purpose in relationships and life. They discuss why Adam felt compelled to shift away from a system that prolongs suffering and how he's now on a mission to help people build secure relationships without financial strain.
This episode isn’t just a conversation—it’s a powerful call to action for anyone seeking true fulfillment in their relationships and life.
✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨:
👉 The shocking reason why Adam Lane Smith quit therapy.
👉 How therapy’s endless sessions might be draining your wallet without ever giving you real results.
👉 The make-or-break steps every couple needs to create a relationship that actually lasts.
👉 The manipulation tactics some avoidants use to justify their toxic behaviors.
👉 How every relationship can be repaired, but only if you're willing to do the work.
👉 Practical solutions to build secure connections without the financial burden of traditional therapy.
Get ready to hear the uncomfortable truths and practical advice on building lasting, authentic connections. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where Teal Swan Brutally Dissects Modern Therapy & Healing:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWxUn_3ffa4&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/
Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/
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Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod
Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809
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Follow Adam Lane Smith:
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Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/
Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro
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Follow Andrey Korikov:
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Website: https://veritascreative.media/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/
Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov
Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en
The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

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Oct 18, 2024 • 1h 31min
Avoidant Man EXPOSES What Avoidant Men Really Think Of You
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🎙️ In this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew," the attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, confront the harsh realities of avoidant behavior in relationships.
In this episode, Adam and Andrey dive into the reality of anxious-avoidant relationships, their differing emotional needs and communication styles, their triggers, and the different ways to find common ground and promote understanding for a healthier relationship dynamic.
This episode is not just a discussion—it’s an essential guide for anyone dealing with avoidant partners.
✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨:
👉 Why avoidant men struggle with intimacy and how it impacts relationships.
👉 Why anxious partners struggle to get clarity and connection from their avoidant partners, worsening their anxiety.
👉 The manipulation tactics some avoidants use to justify their toxic behaviors.
👉 The crucial role of compassionate communication in preventing fights in anxious-avoidant relationships.
👉 Practical advice for anxious partners and avoidant partners on improving your relationship.
👉 How anxious partners can better understand and cope with avoidant partners.
👉 The importance of vulnerability and emotional honesty in healing anxious-avoidant relationships.
Get ready to challenge your perceptions, uncover hidden truths, and explore what it truly takes to build authentic, lasting connections. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Inside the Mind of Avoidant Men (How It Shapes Relationships)’
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbeNaweVofs
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/
Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/
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Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow
Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod
Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809
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Follow Adam Lane Smith:
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Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/
Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro
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Follow Andrey Korikov:
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Website: https://veritascreative.media/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/
Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov
The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

Oct 11, 2024 • 1h 3min
Teal Swan Brutally Dissects Modern Therapy & Toxic Relationships
Teal Swan, a renowned spiritual teacher and trauma expert, joins the discussion to critique modern therapy and its effects on relationships. They explore how conventional therapy can entrap individuals in toxic patterns and the silent grip of unresolved childhood trauma on adult bonds. The conversation reveals why many feel betrayed by the therapy system and highlights the hidden reasons toxic partners persist in one’s life. With powerful insights, they encourage using emotions as essential data on the journey to healthier connections.

Oct 4, 2024 • 1h 12min
Attachment Specialist Helps Avoidant Man Face Trust Issues LIVE
Adam Lane Smith, an attachment specialist, dives deep into the challenges faced by an avoidant man in a transformative live coaching session. The conversation unpacks how avoidant attachment impacts relationship dynamics and trust issues. Adam highlights the root causes of emotional barriers and provides practical tips to foster intimacy. Listeners will learn how to navigate loyalty tests that sabotage connections and discover the importance of direct communication in overcoming fears. A must-listen for anyone struggling with emotional openness!

Sep 27, 2024 • 1h 11min
Dr. Amanda Hanson Exposes Toxic Femininity, Self-Sacrifice, & The Patriarchy
🎙️ In this episode of "I Wish You Knew," Dr. Amanda Hanson, a leading clinical psychologist, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, to confront the hidden dangers shaping modern relationships.
Dr. Amanda Hanson exposes the toxic influences of femininity, self-sacrifice, and the patriarchy, unmasking how these forces impact every woman’s life and relationships. Together, they dive deep into the roots of these issues, exploring how societal expectations and outdated gender roles can create destructive dynamics in love and life.
Tune in to this eye-opening discussion to understand the psychological and emotional triggers at play, and learn how to foster healthier, more authentic relationship dynamics. Discover the crucial steps women can take to advocate for themselves, reclaim their power, and break free from the constraints of toxic femininity and self-sacrifice.
✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨:
👉 How toxic femininity is sabotaging relationships and personal well-being.
👉 The hidden dangers of living by outdated traditional gender roles and societal expectations.
👉 Dr. Amanda Hanson exposes the deep-rooted impact of the patriarchy on women’s lives and identities.
👉 How women can reclaim their power and step into their true Queen energy.
👉 The link between attachment styles and how they shape relationship dynamics.
👉 Why selflessness isn’t always noble and how it can destroy your relationships.
👉 Practical advice for women on how to advocate for themselves in love and life.
👉 How embracing vulnerability and emotional honesty can transform relationships.
👉 The importance of breaking free from traditional constraints to live a more authentic and fulfilling life.
Don't miss this urgent conversation that challenges the status quo and empowers you to live more fully and authentically. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Men, Listen Up! Dr. Alyssa Marie on Female Brain & Emotional Struggles’
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6GjOfwdGs4
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/
Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/
Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro
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Follow Andrey Korikov:
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Website: https://veritascreative.media/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/
Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov
Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en
The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

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Sep 20, 2024 • 1h 28min
Naftali Moses Reveals Why Modern Marriages Struggle Without Traditional Values
Naftali Moses, an insightful advocate for traditional values, joins the conversation to dissect the struggles modern marriages face. He discusses how societal norms and emotional detachment hinder real connections. The group explores the importance of open communication and emotional bonding in relationships. They examine the neurological dynamics of attraction and emphasize the need to reintegrate traditional values for deeper intimacy. This thought-provoking dialogue challenges listeners to rethink their approach to love and connection.

Sep 13, 2024 • 1h 31min
Havva Ramadan on Grief, Loss, Love and Creativity
🎙️ Welcome to this deeply emotional episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by the incredibly talented artist and poet, Havva Ramadan, for a raw and heartfelt conversation about the profound grief that comes from unspoken words, the pain of losing a loved one, and the regret of not saying "I love you" when it mattered most.
In this episode, we confront the pain of unspoken love, the weight of regret, and the silent burden of grief. Havva, Adam, and Andrey explore the silent burden of grief, the importance of healing emotional wounds, and how embracing vulnerability can lead to deeper connections with those we love. This is a conversation that will touch your heart and stay with you long after it ends.
✨ Key Points That Will Leave a Lasting Impression ✨:
👉 How grief turns inward and the emotional toll it takes on those left behind.
👉 The silent burden of regret and what happens when forgiveness comes too late.
👉 The struggle of moving forward after losing a loved one without closure.
👉 Why expressing love and forgiveness in the moment is crucial for emotional healing.
👉 The impact of unresolved grief on relationships and personal growth.
👉 How to find peace and healing through vulnerability and open communication.
👉 The role of creative expression in processing deep emotional pain.
👉 Practical strategies for embracing emotional intimacy and building stronger connections in the face of loss.
This is a heartfelt conversation that dives deep into emotions many of us struggle to face. It’s not an easy discussion, but it’s a necessary one. These are tough topics, but they’re essential to understanding how to heal, forgive, and move forward. Tune in for a powerful and transformative experience that will resonate long after the episode ends. 🎧
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Mark Groves on Why We Stay in Toxic Relationships and How to Break Free’
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CKPWEY-QJx4
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/
Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/
Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro
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Follow Andrey Korikov:
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Website: https://veritascreative.media/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/
Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov
Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en
The next episode drops Thursday :)
See you there.

Sep 6, 2024 • 1h 2min
Spiritual Coach Explains Psychedelics and Male Spirituality
Adeyemi Adeyosoye, a renowned spiritual leader and coach, discusses the transformative power of psychedelics for high-performing men. He delves into the emotional struggles many face due to societal expectations and how psychedelics can foster vulnerability and intimacy. Listeners will learn about breaking the cycle of hypermasculinity, overcoming intimacy issues, and the importance of community and support during transformative journeys. Adeyemi emphasizes integrating these experiences for personal growth and deeper connections in relationships.

Aug 30, 2024 • 35min
Why Are Modern Men So Miserable? Andrew Shaw Reveals the Shocking Truth
In this engaging conversation, Andrew Shaw, a psychologist and mental resilience coach, explores the modern challenges men face. He discusses how social media impacts men's mental health and exacerbates confusion about masculinity. Listeners are offered practical strategies to build routines and self-awareness, helping them overcome limiting beliefs. Shaw emphasizes the significance of nurturing relationships, emotional regulation, and the role of community in achieving fulfillment and happiness.