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I Wish You Knew

Evan Marc Katz & Adam Lane Smith Heated Debate | Can We Truly Change Our Partner?

Apr 10, 2025
01:21:56

In this episode, Evan Marc Katz joins Adam Lane Smith for a fiery and thought-provoking debate on one of the most challenging questions in relationships: Can we truly change our partner—or is it all about accepting them as they are? From practical dating strategies to deeper emotional dynamics, this conversation dives into the complexities of modern love and long-term compatibility.

✨ Key Topics Covered:
👉 Can good relationships be effortless—or do they always require "hard work"?
👉 Why trying to filter a future husband through dating profiles might be sabotaging your chances
👉 The hidden danger of rushing relationships due to urgency or age
👉 Do men doing more chores really lead to higher divorce rates?
👉 Why chemistry fades—and what truly keeps couples together long-term
👉 Understanding attachment styles: anxious vs. avoidant in real-life dynamics
👉 How discomfort can be a sign of growth in a healthy relationship
👉 Can emotionally avoidant men become devoted, secure partners?
👉 The power of conflict resolution and reading emotional cues
👉 What makes two people truly compatible—beyond cliches

Whether you're single and searching or in the middle of navigating a tough dynamic, this conversation offers powerful insights into love, growth, and emotional responsibility. To dive deeper into relationship skills, check out Adam's retreat offerings at https://adamlanesmith.com/retreat/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=avoidant&utm_content=descriptionlink

Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’  https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc 

Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com 

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