

Negotiation is The Secret To Healthy Relationships | Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist
In this episode, Andrey and Adam dive deep into the foundations of trust-based communication in both professional and personal relationships.
They unpack the dangers of transactional thinking, explore how poor communication sabotages connection, and offer practical insight into building relationships rooted in mutual respect rather than leverage.
Topics Covered:
👉 The danger of giving power based solely on talent
👉 Why standardization and Six Sigma don't inspire Gen Z workers
👉 The shift from performance-based to trust-based leadership
👉 How fear and unmet expectations destroy relationships
👉 The role of masculine relationships and loyalty in high-performing teams
👉 Love, loyalty, and servitude in business culture
👉 How attachment wounds impact negotiation and influence
👉 The legal and ethical principles of “good faith” negotiation
👉 Why old systems of influence are collapsing in the age of AI
👉 Why leverage-based leadership is unsustainable
If this conversation shifted the way you think about negotiation, leadership, or connection—there’s more where that came from. For deeper insight into building trust-based relationships in business and life, visit adamlainsmith.com.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc
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