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Raymond and Jenny Teo, founders of Ten Butter Fingers and married for 25 years, share their journey navigating in-law dynamics. They reveal how early tensions around visits led to conflicts due to varying expectations. By prioritizing their marriage and finding creative routines, they eased pressures. They emphasize the importance of empathy, reminding listeners that in-laws are learning too. Moreover, they discuss the need for a united front and consulting each other before commitments, ensuring balance and respect in family relationships.

Raymond and Jenny Teo, co-founders of Ten Butter Fingers and experienced marriage workshop facilitators, dive deep into the intersection of money and marriage. They explore differing financial habits and the importance of communication in managing finances as a couple. The Teos highlight stewardship principles, the power of delayed gratification, and the joy found in low-cost activities. They also tackle financial tensions shaped by family influences and share strategies for budgeting effectively, ultimately emphasizing that true happiness in marriage transcends mere dollars and cents.

In this enlightening discussion, Jenny and Raymond Teo, co-founders of Ten Butterfingers with 25 years of marriage experience, share practical wisdom on managing household chores as a couple. They explore how teamwork, not scorekeeping, fosters connection, emphasizing flexibility and prioritizing rest. The couple unveils the importance of clear communication about responsibilities and tackling the mental load. With tips on quick cleans and the value of outsourcing, they remind listeners that a harmonious home reflects shared values and love.

How do you build a marriage that feels safe—physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually—as you prioritise open and honest communication? In this episode, host June sits down with couple therapists and clinical psychologists Jared and Joyce Tan to explore how couples can process their thoughts and feelings and express the deepest parts of themselves to their spouse. They discuss why emotional safety is essential for intimacy and growth, and how self-awareness and attunement help couples navigate differences and strengthen connection. The conversation also highlights how unspoken expectations and family backgrounds can create emotional distance—and how understanding each other’s inner world can build a stronger, more secure bond. Safety in marriage isn’t about avoiding conflict, but about cultivating care, humility, and repair. Whether you're adjusting to new rhythms or working through challenges, this episode offers practical insights to help you create a relationship where both partners feel seen, supported, and safe. --Sign up here to create an account with Focus on the Family Singapore to access a wide range of marriage and parenting resources designed to nurture and strengthen your family relationships.--If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.  You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

Jared Tan, a principal psychologist at Focus on the Family Singapore, and Joyce Tan, a clinical psychologist, dive deep into the world of self-care in marriage. They emphasize that self-care isn't selfish; rather, it enhances relationships by allowing spouses to bring their best selves. The duo discusses personal signs of emotional depletion and the importance of open communication. They also share practical strategies for co-managing self-care, from coordinating schedules to identifying joyful activities to recharge together.

Mark and Sue discuss how embracing complementary parenting roles can strengthen marriage and family bonds. They emphasize the importance of presenting a unified front and handling parenting differences through intentional communication. The conversation highlights leaving a legacy of love, trust, and mutual respect for children. By prioritizing their marriage, couples can create a thriving family dynamic that future generations can emulate.

Discover the essence of male leadership in the home, which revolves around humility, love, and respect. A couple shares insights on creating a balanced partnership, highlighting the importance of communication and mutual appreciation. Learn how to navigate the complexities of marriage by valuing each other's viewpoints while maintaining empathy and purpose. Practical wisdom encourages couples to foster understanding and express gratitude, reminding us that appreciation can build stronger relationships even amidst challenges.

Because the hardest conversations often lead to the strongest connections. In your marriage, do you sometimes forget to affirm your spouse or show that meaningful conversations matter? Connection takes intention—we need to practice, make time, and walk through it together. If you’ve ever struggled to express what’s on your mind—especially during tough decisions—and found yourself stuck in blame or misunderstanding, you’re not alone. In this episode, Delia continues her conversation with Wai Hoong, a Life and Marriage Coach. They explore how asking the right questions and truly listening can spark curiosity, deepen understanding, and rebuild emotional safety. Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the doorway to a stronger, more connected marriage. --“I was all ready to quit after seven years of marriage. The endless communication breakdowns, deep-seated misunderstandings, and growing resentment in me has taken its toll.” - Tricia (Name has been edited to protect the client’s privacy)Life can be overwhelming. Having a listening ear can bring relief, help you feel supported, and improve relationships. Make an appointment with a counsellor today. Find our more www.family.org.sg/counselling. Fees apply.--Sign up here to create an account with Focus on the Family Singapore to access a wide range of marriage and parenting resources designed to nurture and strengthen your family relationships.--If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.  You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

Wai Hoong, a Life and Marriage Coach, shares his expertise on navigating tough conversations in relationships. He discusses how assumptions and fears can complicate communication, emphasizing the power of curiosity and compassion. Listeners learn effective strategies to address issues without blame and to dive deeper into underlying emotions, particularly regarding parenting disagreements. With personal anecdotes and practical advice, Wai offers a refreshing perspective on transforming challenges into opportunities for growth and connection.

Newlyweds face unique challenges like merging cleanliness habits and managing finances. Open communication and intentional conversations play a vital role in building deeper connections. Simple expressions of gratitude can significantly strengthen emotional bonds. The journey of marriage is about growth, understanding, and choosing connection over conflict. Practical skills can equip couples for a lasting love, making it essential to prioritize each other's needs and foster romance amidst busy lives.