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How Can We Manage Chores Effectively as a Couple?

Nov 5, 2025
In this enlightening discussion, Jenny and Raymond Teo, co-founders of Ten Butterfingers with 25 years of marriage experience, share practical wisdom on managing household chores as a couple. They explore how teamwork, not scorekeeping, fosters connection, emphasizing flexibility and prioritizing rest. The couple unveils the importance of clear communication about responsibilities and tackling the mental load. With tips on quick cleans and the value of outsourcing, they remind listeners that a harmonious home reflects shared values and love.
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INSIGHT

Marriage Is Ongoing Teamwork

  • Raymond and Jenny describe 25 years of learning to agree and partner in life and work.
  • They frame marriage as ongoing teamwork rather than a finished agreement.
ANECDOTE

Habits From Family Shaped Early Roles

  • Raymond flowed into housework because he grew up helping at home and continued those habits after marriage.
  • Jenny noticed they naturally split chores by personal preference and strength.
ADVICE

Outsource Strategically When Needed

  • Get part-time help when seasons of life and work make housework unsustainable.
  • Accept helper limitations and pick battles to preserve time and sanity.
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