The Dildorks

This discussion dives into the notion of selfishness in sexual encounters, unpacking how prioritizing personal pleasure can coexist with mutual satisfaction. From exploring the dynamics of bottoming and topping to reflecting on the roles individuals play, the conversation challenges societal norms around intimacy. Listeners are treated to insights on vulnerability, communication, and the interplay of desire. Playful anecdotes add depth, highlighting the importance of diverse identities and experiences in understanding sexual relationships.

Talking about sex is hard, which is why so many sex educators try to “meet people where they’re at,” a concept we unpack this week to help you have better conversations about sex. Zero Tolerance vs. Harm Reduction | Don’t Be Elitist! | Avoiding Shame Triggers | Self-Disclosure | Jokey Approach | Questions & Assumptions | Assessing Knowledge Level | Self-Criticism Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Celebrate the art of kissing with insightful discussions on consent, intimacy, and the complexities of sexual attraction. Discover how hormonal influences and societal norms shape personal experiences, especially for different identities. Explore the nuances of reading the moment and maintaining clear communication before a kiss. Learn innovative techniques to elevate makeout sessions and the importance of genuine connection. Join a playful celebration of International Kissing Day alongside humorous anecdotes and heartfelt reflections.

Dee Darkholme, a polyamorous advocate and partner of Billy Lohr, dives into the joys and challenges of living with multiple partners. They discuss the emotional dynamics of cohabitation, from balancing personal space to managing differing personalities. Dee and Billy explore the art of communication within a polycule and the complexities it brings to intimacy. They share humorous anecdotes about navigating shared living spaces and the thrill of incorporating playful secrets into their relationships, all while adapting to their new home.

Dive into the tangled web of unrequited feelings and the friend zone, where awkward moments turn into relatable humor. Discover how societal norms shape attraction and the struggle for consent, especially in contrasting heterosexual and queer experiences. Tune in for heartfelt strategies on processing those pesky unreciprocated crushes, and learn how to channel obsession into healthier interactions. With anecdotes about emotional mementos, laughter proves to be a powerful tool for healing and connection. Join the conversation on vulnerability and the joy of friendship!

Navigating the tricky waters of friendship and attraction, the hosts dive into the complexities of catching feelings for a friend. They discuss the importance of communication, whether to flirt or be direct, and the nuances of unreciprocated feelings. Listeners are treated to personal anecdotes about the challenges and delights of platonic relationships influenced by romantic interest. The conversation also touches on the vibrant dynamics within the LGBTQ+ community and the power of genuine connections that span years.

This discussion dives into the world of friends with benefits, comparing it to casual hookups and emphasizing the importance of friendship and communication. Personal stories illuminate how emotional connections can enhance these relationships. The conversation navigates the complexities of labels in polyamory and the fluid dynamics of modern dating. Humor comes into play as the hosts share playful flirting tips, all while reflecting on the transition from casual encounters to deeper connections.

Explore the transformative power of sexual pleasure as self-care, even during low-libido moments. The discussion dives into personal strategies for reconnecting with desire and enhancing sexual identity. Emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries, the hosts share insights on navigating gender, attraction, and effective communication. They challenge the norms of sexual intimacy and consent, advocating for curiosity and creativity in exploring one’s sexuality. This lighthearted yet insightful dialogue encourages embracing personal pleasure and vulnerability.

Dive into a lively discussion on how hormone replacement therapy reshapes sexual experiences, from heightened sensitivity to evolving desires. Explore the emotional nuances of intimacy, including the impact of hormonal changes in queer relationships. Discover the dynamics of chastity play and its effects on sexual function. The hosts tackle body positivity and advocate for trans healthcare while celebrating personal growth and community engagement. Plus, a special treat with a humorous rap about attraction in gaming!

Celebrate Masturbation Month with a lively discussion on solo pleasure! The hosts tackle listener questions about fantasies, self-harm versus masochism, and the fun of integrating pets into private moments. They delve into enhancing self-confidence through erotic materials and personal expression. Humorous improv stories add a twist, alongside an in-depth review of a high-end sex doll that showcases both its highs and lows. Tune in for a mix of humor, insight, and the joy of embracing one's desires!