The Dildorks

Explore the art of asking personal questions on dates, from discussing kinks and safer sex to navigating relationships and family dynamics. The hosts share insights on handling awkward topics like exes, emphasizing openness and humor to foster connections. They delve into the chemistry of attraction and the quirks of online dating rejections, adding a lighthearted twist. With personal anecdotes sprinkled throughout, the discussion encourages transparency in communication for deeper relationships.

Curiosity is the spice of dating! The hosts dive into the art of asking intriguing questions to forge deeper connections on dates. They discuss the importance of mutual interest, compatibility, and creative conversational styles. With insights into open-ended questions that provoke personal reflection, they highlight what makes a conversation truly engaging. Plus, humorous anecdotes and community shoutouts create an entertaining vibe, reminding us why curiosity matters in romance.

Explore the thrilling complexities of polyamorous dating, especially how experiences differ when you're already in a long-term relationship. The discussion touches on navigating couples privilege, the emotional dynamics of new relationships, and the challenges of communicating with monogamous-minded partners. The hosts share personal insights on jealousy, the roles of metamours, and the importance of empathy in fostering deeper connections. It’s a candid look at balancing love and intimacy in non-traditional relationships.

Fetishes can be fascinating and diverse, from the allure of glossy magazines to the unusual world of non-consensual haircutting. The discussion dives into the emotional ties between fetishes and identity, highlighting how personal interests can shape attractions and relationships. Listeners are invited to share their own experiences, emphasizing community in exploring niche desires. The podcast also addresses the balance between professional life and personal fetishes, along with crucial safety tips for using sex toys. Join the journey through unconventional expressions of sexuality!

Curiosity and creativity are the stars of the show this week, enhancing not just intimacy but overall connection. Learn how emotional intelligence and open communication are key to fulfilling sexual experiences. The hosts dive into playful activities that spark curiosity and deepen relationships. They also tackle the 'short kings' phenomenon, exploring societal attitudes toward height in dating. With personal anecdotes and practical tips, they encourage listeners to embrace empathy and explore the depths of their desires.

This episode dives into the relationship between pleasure and stress, offering insights on how to embrace joy amidst societal pressures. The hosts discuss mindfulness, self-love, and the power of daydreaming as tools to enhance well-being. Strategies for overcoming productivity anxieties are shared, alongside the importance of preparing for pleasure. The conversation also explores the nuanced experiences of gender euphoria and dysphoria, challenging stereotypes and advocating for deeper understanding. Tips for sensory enjoyment and celebrating everyday pleasures wrap up the discussion.

When times get tough, pleasure becomes more important than ever. This week, we discuss our favorite ways of accessing pleasure, and the role it plays in our lives, both in and out of the bedroom. Pleasure Activism | “A Rising Tide Lifts All Boats” | Taking the Leap | Beacon of Pleasure Permission | Our Favorite Pleasures | Cocktails & Rituals | Cleaning & Organizing | Learning & Improving | Savoring | Joy as Resistance | Pain & Masochism | Conversations | Chastity & Denial | Disordered Eating (42:00–46:50) | Alleviation of Discomfort | Trans Youth Healthcare Action Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This week we’re continuing to discuss some of our favorite films about the LGBTQ+ experience – plus a few about non-monogamy and sex work, for good measure! 750GB of Trans Content | Obsession & Bigotry | Sylvia Scarlett | Call Me Kate | Katharine Hepburn | Angels in America | Spirituality for Queers | Fellow Travelers | The Apprentice | Lavender Marriage | Some Like It Hot | Tootsie | She’s the Man | Disclosure | Mulan | Cruising | Dog Day Afternoon | The Dog | Theodora Goes Wild | Design for Living | Two Girls and a Guy | Fire Island | The Leather Boys | The Telephone Book | The Heart Machine | Love and a Major Organ | Sanctuary Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

We needed a dose of queer resilience this week (maybe you do too!), so we’re talking about some of our favorite queer films and the evolution of LGBTQ+ cinema. The News | Hope Throughout History | The Struggle | The Birdcage | The Celluloid Closet | Philadelphia | Straight Actors in Queer Roles | Making Love | Nathan & Robin on Oprah | Ben-Hur | Hays Code | Saturday Night | Coming Out & Outing People | The Children’s Hour | Shame & Self-Loathing | Framing Agnes | Cis vs. Trans Audiences | Before Stonewall | Forbidden Love | P.S. Burn This Letter Please | Kumu Hina | The Final Member | Scotty and the Secret History of Hollywood Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

The hosts dive into their favorite new fantasies for 2024, weaving in humor and honesty. They touch on the impact of plausibility in desires and the importance of communication in exploring intimacy. Discussions about workplace dynamics and how shows like 'Severance' influence sexual awareness make for intriguing insights. The exploration of gender identity and the push against traditional beauty standards add depth to their reflections. They also humorously critique exaggerated adult film portrayals, revealing how these shapes fantasies and desires.