The Dildorks Get the Word Out
Sep 24, 2025
Explore the fascinating world of sexual and gender identity labels. The hosts delve into why some people reject labels entirely and debate whether terms like gynosexual or sapiosexual are 'cringe.' They discuss how identities can change over time and the nuances between public and private identities. The conversation highlights the importance of validation and affirmation in personal identity, along with tips on expressing gender beyond clothing. It's a lively take on how labels shape community and individual experiences!
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“No Labels” Often Comes From Privilege
- People who say "I don't like labels" often hold privilege or haven't had labels imposed on them.
- Kate Sloan and Billy note avoiding labels can ignore how labels protect and connect marginalized folks.
Labels Build Community And Belonging
- Labels help marginalized people find community, ancestors, and shared history.
- Billy Lohr argues labels are practical tools for communication and belonging.
Reflect Before Adopting A Niche Label
- If someone uses a niche sexual label, reflect on whether it narrows your dating pool intentionally.
- Billy suggests asking why a label is chosen and whether it masks reluctance to claim queerness.
