The Dildorks

This week, while Kate’s moving from Toronto to New York, Billy chats with his partner Dee Darkholme about THEIR recent move, and what it’s been like adjusting to living together with Dee’s other partner. Living with 2 Partners | Opposite vs. Similar | Communication & Criticism | Sex Issues | Having People Over | Decoration Decisions | Complementary Strengths | Alone Time | Nice Things Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Dive into the tangled web of unrequited feelings and the friend zone, where awkward moments turn into relatable humor. Discover how societal norms shape attraction and the struggle for consent, especially in contrasting heterosexual and queer experiences. Tune in for heartfelt strategies on processing those pesky unreciprocated crushes, and learn how to channel obsession into healthier interactions. With anecdotes about emotional mementos, laughter proves to be a powerful tool for healing and connection. Join the conversation on vulnerability and the joy of friendship!

Navigating the tricky waters of friendship and attraction, the hosts dive into the complexities of catching feelings for a friend. They discuss the importance of communication, whether to flirt or be direct, and the nuances of unreciprocated feelings. Listeners are treated to personal anecdotes about the challenges and delights of platonic relationships influenced by romantic interest. The conversation also touches on the vibrant dynamics within the LGBTQ+ community and the power of genuine connections that span years.

This discussion dives into the world of friends with benefits, comparing it to casual hookups and emphasizing the importance of friendship and communication. Personal stories illuminate how emotional connections can enhance these relationships. The conversation navigates the complexities of labels in polyamory and the fluid dynamics of modern dating. Humor comes into play as the hosts share playful flirting tips, all while reflecting on the transition from casual encounters to deeper connections.

Explore the transformative power of sexual pleasure as self-care, even during low-libido moments. The discussion dives into personal strategies for reconnecting with desire and enhancing sexual identity. Emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries, the hosts share insights on navigating gender, attraction, and effective communication. They challenge the norms of sexual intimacy and consent, advocating for curiosity and creativity in exploring one’s sexuality. This lighthearted yet insightful dialogue encourages embracing personal pleasure and vulnerability.

Dive into a lively discussion on how hormone replacement therapy reshapes sexual experiences, from heightened sensitivity to evolving desires. Explore the emotional nuances of intimacy, including the impact of hormonal changes in queer relationships. Discover the dynamics of chastity play and its effects on sexual function. The hosts tackle body positivity and advocate for trans healthcare while celebrating personal growth and community engagement. Plus, a special treat with a humorous rap about attraction in gaming!

Happy Masturbation Month to those who celebrate! This week we’re answering listener questions on jerkin’ it.Want to Want It | Solo Pain Play | Masochism vs. Self-Harm | Fantasies Making a Comeback | Achievable Fantasies | Pets in the Room Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Living with your polycule: bad idea, or best idea? This week we discuss the emotional and practical realities of Billy’s recent decision to move in with his partner and metamour! Kitchen Table Polyamory | Combining Households | Chore Distribution | Building New Routines | Bedroom Privacy | Gross Little Gremlin | Largest Room | Fears | Chosen Family | Poly Stigma | Complementary Skillsets Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This week, Kate chats with friend of the show Addison Finch about the ritual and reverence of bootblacking, and what we can learn about our current political moment from studying the history of kink. CLAGS Lecture Series | Leather History | Can Straight People Be “Leather”? | Kink Awakening | History & Context | Kink Reading Group | Activism & Organizing | Bootblacking & Leather Care | Boot Worship Scenes | Longevity of Leather Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This light-hearted discussion kicks off with a humorous take on 4/20, pondering silly sex-related hypotheticals. The hosts explore the blending of cinematic quotes with intimacy and dive into quirky culinary kinks by reimagining cooking tools as sex toys. They reflect on past loves, share insights on threesomes, and introduce the absurdity of fireworks-themed genitalia. Wrapped in laughter, they muse on fetishes while keeping it playful and entertaining, creating an engaging blend of humor and thought-provoking topics.