The Dildorks

Friendships with benefits are an important part of our sexual landscape, so this week we discuss how to navigate casual ongoing sexual partnerships with kindness and grace. FWBs vs. Fuckbuddies | Demisexuality | Romantic Attraction | Safety & Trust | Familiarity & Practice | Sex is Fun | Intimacy & Connection | Finding a FWB | Asking a Friend | Labeling | “What Are You Looking For?” | “We Should Make Out” | Relationship Escalator | Managing Expectations Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Sexual pleasure can be wonderful self-care, even during some low-libido times. This week we discuss our favorite methods of sexual self-care. Happy Pride Month! | Not Jerking Off | Perfunctory Masturbation | Reducing Friction | Opportunities to Feel Sexy | Sexual Health | Setting & Enforcing Boundaries | Self-Knowledge | Focusing on Pleasure | Curiosity & Creativity | “Just Do It”? Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Dive into a lively discussion on how hormone replacement therapy reshapes sexual experiences, from heightened sensitivity to evolving desires. Explore the emotional nuances of intimacy, including the impact of hormonal changes in queer relationships. Discover the dynamics of chastity play and its effects on sexual function. The hosts tackle body positivity and advocate for trans healthcare while celebrating personal growth and community engagement. Plus, a special treat with a humorous rap about attraction in gaming!

Happy Masturbation Month to those who celebrate! This week we’re answering listener questions on jerkin’ it.Want to Want It | Solo Pain Play | Masochism vs. Self-Harm | Fantasies Making a Comeback | Achievable Fantasies | Pets in the Room Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Living with your polycule: bad idea, or best idea? This week we discuss the emotional and practical realities of Billy’s recent decision to move in with his partner and metamour! Kitchen Table Polyamory | Combining Households | Chore Distribution | Building New Routines | Bedroom Privacy | Gross Little Gremlin | Largest Room | Fears | Chosen Family | Poly Stigma | Complementary Skillsets Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This week, Kate chats with friend of the show Addison Finch about the ritual and reverence of bootblacking, and what we can learn about our current political moment from studying the history of kink. CLAGS Lecture Series | Leather History | Can Straight People Be “Leather”? | Kink Awakening | History & Context | Kink Reading Group | Activism & Organizing | Bootblacking & Leather Care | Boot Worship Scenes | Longevity of Leather Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This light-hearted discussion kicks off with a humorous take on 4/20, pondering silly sex-related hypotheticals. The hosts explore the blending of cinematic quotes with intimacy and dive into quirky culinary kinks by reimagining cooking tools as sex toys. They reflect on past loves, share insights on threesomes, and introduce the absurdity of fireworks-themed genitalia. Wrapped in laughter, they muse on fetishes while keeping it playful and entertaining, creating an engaging blend of humor and thought-provoking topics.

This discussion dives into the intricacies of planning successful dates. From balancing traditional and adventurous ideas to addressing dietary preferences, communication is key. The hosts share personal stories on choosing venues that enhance connection, highlighting the impact of environment on intimacy. They also suggest creative, affordable date ideas perfect for warmer weather. Plus, they dig into attraction conversation styles and share exciting updates about upcoming musical improv shows, adding a fun twist to their dating exploration.

This week, the hosts dive into the art of sexting, revealing how voice memos can intensify intimate communication. They discuss the cultural significance of the eggplant emoji and explore tips for intimate photography. The nuances of teasing through subtle imagery are highlighted, along with the pitfalls of miscommunication in digital flirting. The conversation emphasizes the balance of emotional connection and creativity in sharing fantasies while promoting open dialogues around digital privacy and sexuality.

Sexting is the hot topic, revealing how it can enhance connection and empathy in relationships. The hosts discuss the playful art of crafting good sexts and the importance of understanding female anatomy for intimacy. They also dive into the improvisational 'yes, and' approach to foster engaging conversations. Listeners will enjoy anecdotes about the challenges and joys of modern sexual communication, as well as the significance of verbal expression and diverse experiences in building deeper emotional connections.