The Dildorks

In a playful Halloween theme, hosts dive into the quirks of heterosexual culture. They ask whether straightness truly exists and how societal norms shape sexual identities. A critique of the default relationship script reveals communication gaps, while they explore why straight relationships can drain pleasure. The impact of gender roles in breakups is discussed alongside the myth of opposite-sex friendships. With a humorous take on 'hall passes' and lube stigma, they challenge listeners to rethink cultural narratives and embrace curiosity in love.

This discussion tackles the art of relationship check-ins, highlighting how they can smooth out stresses and anxieties in partnerships. The hosts explore structuring check-ins like household meetings to keep casual time intact. They emphasize reframing check-ins as proactive care rather than crisis management, suggesting that ordinary check-ins can reduce emotional activation. Tips on crafting good questions and adding fun prompts are shared to enhance connection. They conclude with strategies for aftercare, ensuring every check-in ends on a positive note.

Tuck Woodstock, the creator of the Gender Reveal podcast and co-editor of the anthology Sex Change and the City, joins the conversation to explore the relevance of Sex and the City for queer and trans viewers. They discuss trans-coded characters, critique Che Diaz's portrayal, and delve into top-for-top sexual dynamics. Tuck also shares insights about the Gender Reveal Grant Program and offers practical advice for independent queer presses. The chat is a rich blend of humor, critique, and community building around gender and sexuality.

In this episode, the hosts explore their evolving views on service kink as they age and undergo therapy. They discuss the impact of chronic illness on their service dynamics and how living together alters expectations. Topics include the satisfying nature of competence-based tasks, the fine line between fulfilling service and feeling like work, and how shared routines enhance anticipatory service. They also critique the tradwife phenomenon, delve into the aesthetics of service roles, and share tantalizing fantasies around erotic and non-erotic service.

Dive into the world of anal play as myths get busted with humor and insight. Discover that engaging in anal activities doesn’t change your sexual orientation and that it’s not inherently tied to masculinity or femininity. Learn about the anatomy involved, the importance of communication, and why practice is key before partnered play. They tackle misconceptions about tightness and the reality of messiness, advocating for a sex-positive approach that respects individual choices and consent.

Explore the fascinating world of sexual and gender identity labels. The hosts delve into why some people reject labels entirely and debate whether terms like gynosexual or sapiosexual are 'cringe.' They discuss how identities can change over time and the nuances between public and private identities. The conversation highlights the importance of validation and affirmation in personal identity, along with tips on expressing gender beyond clothing. It's a lively take on how labels shape community and individual experiences!

Labels in the realm of sex and gender can be both affirming and limiting. The hosts explore how these terms serve personal identity, giving voice to individual experiences. They discuss the benefits of labels for community connection and communication, and how they can refine our understanding of self. Conversations touch on bisexuality, queer identities, and the importance of reclaiming slurs. They also tackle the fluidity of identity and advocate for viewing labels as playful tools for self-expression rather than rigid constraints.

This week dives into the complex world of asexuality, uncovering its nuances and misunderstandings. Kate shares her journey of newly identifying as ace, explaining how the label offers clarity and relief. The duo discusses the overlap with neurodivergence and tackles whether asexuality fits under the queer umbrella. They explore the impact of hookup culture and the importance of communication in relationships, while also highlighting the significance of community resources for those navigating their identities.

Dive into the world of play parties with insights on becoming a Dungeon Master and the allure of professionalism. Learn essential tips for approaching others, handling common rookie mistakes, and managing your mood during events. Discover how to navigate overwhelming situations and why keeping communication open with DMs is crucial. Plus, get advice on the delicate dynamics of consent and making meaningful connections. Whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned attendee, this discussion offers valuable strategies for everyone.

Get ready to crash the party with insightful tips on navigating play parties! Explore the concept of sex as a hobby and how these gatherings serve as community hubs. Discover the importance of etiquette, from negotiation strategies to the art of spontaneous desire. Packing essentials like toys and optimal outfits is discussed, along with respectful spectator behaviors. Learn how to set intentions and use clothing to signal your interests, ensuring a fun and fulfilling experience in the world of kink and sex.