The Dildorks Full of Yourself
Nov 11, 2025
Dive into the art of self-confidence, where fake it till you make it takes center stage! Explore how confidence varies by context and embrace being a novice without shame. Discover the power of clear boundaries and how owning your identity can enhance appeal. There's a fascinating discussion on how confidence reduces emotional labor in relationships and why it makes you more attractive. Plus, learn how confident submissives thrive when they communicate desires openly. Join the journey of living authentically!
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Confidence Is Contextual
- Self-confidence is highly contextual and tied to skills you’ve invested in.
- Billy Lohr and Kate Sloan describe confidence as present in areas where you’ve 'put skill points' and practiced.
Use Familiar Wins To Bootstrap Confidence
- Fake confidence in new contexts by placing yourself in familiar, validating spaces.
- Use momentum from areas where you already succeed to carry confidence into other domains.
Confidence Is A Deliberate Presentation
- Appearance of confidence (calm, deliberate body language) often differs from inner feeling.
- Confidence signals through still, purposeful movement and lower self-deprecation.
