The Dildorks An Object Lesson
Dec 16, 2025
Dive into the fascinating world of objectification in kink! Discover how consensual objectification differs from societal views and the healing aspects it can offer. The hosts explore extreme roles, from being a urinal to the complexities of the 'just a hole' fantasy. They discuss the importance of trust and empathy in these dynamics and why they find it arousing. Plus, enjoy insights on settings for objectification play, glory hole fantasies, and even the roles of dominants. Perfect for those curious about the nuances of kink!
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Objectification Is A Spectrum
- Objectification spans a spectrum from societal dehumanization to consensual kink where agency is negotiated.
- Kate Sloan notes consensual objectification can be healing after nonconsensual sexualization.
Trust Lets Fear Become Fantasy
- Powerful objectification fantasies can recreate past fears while being safe with a trusted partner.
- Kate Sloan says eight years of evidence her wife doesn't actually see her as "just a hole" enables the play.
Empathy Underpins Consensual Objectification
- Empathy from the top is essential even when tops perform lack of feeling.
- Billy Lohr emphasizes socialization shapes empathy, affecting who they trust for objectification scenes.