The Dildorks Ace of Hearts
Sep 9, 2025
This week dives into the complex world of asexuality, uncovering its nuances and misunderstandings. Kate shares her journey of newly identifying as ace, explaining how the label offers clarity and relief. The duo discusses the overlap with neurodivergence and tackles whether asexuality fits under the queer umbrella. They explore the impact of hookup culture and the importance of communication in relationships, while also highlighting the significance of community resources for those navigating their identities.
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What Asexuality Actually Means
- Asexuality means lacking sexual attraction to people, not necessarily avoiding sex or pleasure.
- Many ace people enjoy sex, masturbate, or like physical sensations without person-directed attraction.
Discovery Through Language
- Many people only realize they're ace after encountering the term and recognizing their experiences in it.
- Lack of earlier information often delays self-identification for ace and trans people alike.
Autistic Overlap With Ace Identities
- Research shows significant overlap between autistic and ace/aro communities.
- Neurodivergence may change how people perceive cultural messages about sex and romance.