
The Dildorks Ass Is In Session
Sep 30, 2025
Dive into the world of anal play as myths get busted with humor and insight. Discover that engaging in anal activities doesn’t change your sexual orientation and that it’s not inherently tied to masculinity or femininity. Learn about the anatomy involved, the importance of communication, and why practice is key before partnered play. They tackle misconceptions about tightness and the reality of messiness, advocating for a sex-positive approach that respects individual choices and consent.
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Anal Play Doesn’t Define Orientation
- Anal play does not change sexual orientation and conflates activity with identity.
- Kate Sloan and Billy Lohr emphasize that desire for anal sex doesn't make someone gay or bi.
Don’t Rely On Numbing Lube
- Avoid using numbing (lidocaine) products as a substitute for lube and consented pacing.
- Billy Lohr warns numbing removes pain signals and can mask damage, so use caution and prioritize safety.
Warm Up Slowly For Comfort
- Warm up slowly and respect the internal sphincter by using fingers or small toys before penetration.
- Billy Lohr explains patience, arousal, and ample lube reduce pain and let the body relax naturally.




