The Dildorks

Reflecting on their growth in sex and relationships over the past year, the hosts share their evolving perspectives on identity and intimacy. They dive into the playful dynamics of sharing space, including humorous insights on kink toys like penis pumps and cages. Virtual reality porn meets BDSM in an exploration of unique desires. The conversation highlights personal growth, community support, and the importance of self-care, all while mixing humor with thoughtful reflections on queer representation and nostalgia.

Vocal tone can have a big effect on kink scenes and everyday conversations alike, so this week we’re discussing our feelings on voices and dirty talk. Dirty Talk & Humiliation | Voice Kink & Praise Kink | Long-Distance | Off-Camera vs. On | Speaking vs. Typing | Attraction | The Ick | Performativity | Billy’s Yes/No/Maybe List | Gender & Pitch | Dom & Sub Voices | Archetypes & Parts | Gender & Bottoming Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

People are always coming up with new and interesting fetishes, and this week we discuss some unusual ones we’ve seen lately. Current Definition | “Deviating” from the “Norm” | Taboo & Shame | Cream Pies & Facesitting | Bubble-Blowing | Sex Work Stigma | Mind-Reading | Sex Worker Fetish | Accelerator & Brakes Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This week, a conversation about denial kink devolves into a wide-ranging discussion of gendered sex narratives, the kinky legacies of trauma, and the Big Nut. Orgasms vs. Other Stuff | Enough to Make You Blush | (Lack of) Power | Motivation & Specialness | Big Shiny Stakes | Self-Worth & “Deservingness” | Family Influences | Working Toward a Reward | Healing | Topping | “Throw ‘Em a Bone” | “Men Only Want One Thing” | Hyperawareness | Begging | Solo Processing | Orgasm Intensity | Mindfulness & Meaning Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This week, the hosts dive into the intriguing world of parasocial relationships, exploring both the joys and challenges of having celebrity crushes. They discuss how these one-sided connections can provide emotional energy and inspiration, especially during tough times. The conversation also touches on the complexities of identity in the age of social media, revealing the balance between authenticity and curated online personas. With a blend of humor and reflection, they navigate the dynamics of masculinity and self-perception in this modern landscape.

Dive into the intriguing world of No Nut November as Kate and her spouse delve into its cultural significance and connections to chastity kink. They explore masculinity, emotional needs, and the psychological dynamics of self-control. The discussion takes a political turn, critiquing how abstinence practices can intertwine with far-right ideologies. Personal experiences, community perspectives, and the importance of consent are highlighted throughout the conversation, creating a rich tapestry of thoughts on desire and empowerment.

Delve into the fascinating world of parasocial relationships, where admiration blurs the lines between reality and fantasy. The hosts share their own experiences with these one-sided connections, critiquing the superficial nature of attachments fostered by social media. They discuss the significance of genuine interactions, the social staircase concept, and how personal traits can spark infatuation. Plus, they reflect on the political climate's impact on sexual health, emphasizing the importance of community in navigating these complex dynamics.

Happy Halloween! This week we’re discussing our favorite fantasies outside the realm of realism. Fantasies Changing Over Time | Impossibilities | Tropes & Genres | Hypnosis | Being Watched | Magic vs. Medicine | Mind-Reading | Fairies | Dragons | Love Potions | Settings & Mechanics Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

We’re taking the week off, so here’s the full, previously-unreleased conversation we had when Kate interviewed Billy for Making Magic in September of last year! We touched on the Magic Wand’s role in queer sex, trans sex, porn, kink, and our lives as a whole. First Memories | Current Relationship to the Wand | Aesthetics | Porn | Conducting Vibrations | Dysphoria | Trans Sex | Queer Sex | “Best” Vibrator? | Tech Considerations | Kink | Safewords | Roleplay | Casual Hitachi’ing | Surgery Recovery Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Dive into the intriguing nuances of fear and rejection. The conversation touches on the challenges of seeking reassurance in relationships and the impact of cultural perceptions. Explore how experiences shape personal identities, especially in communities like incels, and discover the role of hormones in self-awareness. With a sprinkle of humor, the speakers share their content creation struggles and the ethics behind sponsored content, ensuring an entertaining mix of introspection and light-hearted anecdotes.