The Dildorks Home Sweet Homo
Jul 3, 2025
Dee Darkholme, a polyamorous advocate and partner of Billy Lohr, dives into the joys and challenges of living with multiple partners. They discuss the emotional dynamics of cohabitation, from balancing personal space to managing differing personalities. Dee and Billy explore the art of communication within a polycule and the complexities it brings to intimacy. They share humorous anecdotes about navigating shared living spaces and the thrill of incorporating playful secrets into their relationships, all while adapting to their new home.
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From Two Apartments To One Shared Home
- Dee describes moving from two separate apartments into a single shared house with both partners present full-time.
- She says having all feelings and stuff happening in one place is intimidating and more challenging than separate homes.
Complementary Temperaments Reduce Friction
- Opposite personalities can complement household tasks and reduce conflict when one partner is easygoing.
- Dee notes Popcat’s chill approach makes many logistics smoother than expected.
Use A Casual Weekly Polycule Night
- Keep a regular shared meeting night to catch small issues and bond rather than scheduling constant formal check-ins.
- Use the night for fun first so conversations don’t become an ongoing criticism session.
