

The Dildorks
Billy Lore, Kate Sloan
Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.
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Jun 10, 2025 • 45min
Copulationships
This discussion dives into the world of friends with benefits, comparing it to casual hookups and emphasizing the importance of friendship and communication. Personal stories illuminate how emotional connections can enhance these relationships. The conversation navigates the complexities of labels in polyamory and the fluid dynamics of modern dating. Humor comes into play as the hosts share playful flirting tips, all while reflecting on the transition from casual encounters to deeper connections.

Jun 3, 2025 • 42min
Pleasure for the Better
Explore the transformative power of sexual pleasure as self-care, even during low-libido moments. The discussion dives into personal strategies for reconnecting with desire and enhancing sexual identity. Emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries, the hosts share insights on navigating gender, attraction, and effective communication. They challenge the norms of sexual intimacy and consent, advocating for curiosity and creativity in exploring one’s sexuality. This lighthearted yet insightful dialogue encourages embracing personal pleasure and vulnerability.

May 27, 2025 • 46min
Take the 'E' Train
Dive into a lively discussion on how hormone replacement therapy reshapes sexual experiences, from heightened sensitivity to evolving desires. Explore the emotional nuances of intimacy, including the impact of hormonal changes in queer relationships. Discover the dynamics of chastity play and its effects on sexual function. The hosts tackle body positivity and advocate for trans healthcare while celebrating personal growth and community engagement. Plus, a special treat with a humorous rap about attraction in gaming!

May 13, 2025 • 38min
Do It Yourself
Celebrate Masturbation Month with a lively discussion on solo pleasure! The hosts tackle listener questions about fantasies, self-harm versus masochism, and the fun of integrating pets into private moments. They delve into enhancing self-confidence through erotic materials and personal expression. Humorous improv stories add a twist, alongside an in-depth review of a high-end sex doll that showcases both its highs and lows. Tune in for a mix of humor, insight, and the joy of embracing one's desires!

May 6, 2025 • 40min
Let's All U-Haul
The hosts dive into the realities of living with a polycule, tackling both emotional and practical sides. They discuss kitchen table polyamory, chore distribution, and the importance of personal space. Listeners get insights into the complexities of cohabitation, including addressing societal stigma and fostering chosen families. The conversation even touches on unique ways to represent polyamory in The Sims! To top it off, they share creative projects and hilarious improv stories, making for an entertaining and enlightening discussion.

Apr 29, 2025 • 43min
Leather Whenever
This week, Kate chats with friend of the show Addison Finch about the ritual and reverence of bootblacking, and what we can learn about our current political moment from studying the history of kink. CLAGS Lecture Series | Leather History | Can Straight People Be “Leather”? | Kink Awakening | History & Context | Kink Reading Group | Activism & Organizing | Bootblacking & Leather Care | Boot Worship Scenes | Longevity of Leather
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Apr 22, 2025 • 1h 4min
Blaze of Gloryhole
This light-hearted discussion kicks off with a humorous take on 4/20, pondering silly sex-related hypotheticals. The hosts explore the blending of cinematic quotes with intimacy and dive into quirky culinary kinks by reimagining cooking tools as sex toys. They reflect on past loves, share insights on threesomes, and introduce the absurdity of fireworks-themed genitalia. Wrapped in laughter, they muse on fetishes while keeping it playful and entertaining, creating an engaging blend of humor and thought-provoking topics.

Apr 15, 2025 • 57min
Who, What, Where, & When?
This discussion dives into the intricacies of planning successful dates. From balancing traditional and adventurous ideas to addressing dietary preferences, communication is key. The hosts share personal stories on choosing venues that enhance connection, highlighting the impact of environment on intimacy. They also suggest creative, affordable date ideas perfect for warmer weather. Plus, they dig into attraction conversation styles and share exciting updates about upcoming musical improv shows, adding a fun twist to their dating exploration.

Apr 8, 2025 • 1h 3min
Put Your Best Tit Forward
This week, the hosts dive into the art of sexting, revealing how voice memos can intensify intimate communication. They discuss the cultural significance of the eggplant emoji and explore tips for intimate photography. The nuances of teasing through subtle imagery are highlighted, along with the pitfalls of miscommunication in digital flirting. The conversation emphasizes the balance of emotional connection and creativity in sharing fantasies while promoting open dialogues around digital privacy and sexuality.

Mar 25, 2025 • 1h 1min
Textual Healing
Sexting is the hot topic, revealing how it can enhance connection and empathy in relationships. The hosts discuss the playful art of crafting good sexts and the importance of understanding female anatomy for intimacy. They also dive into the improvisational 'yes, and' approach to foster engaging conversations. Listeners will enjoy anecdotes about the challenges and joys of modern sexual communication, as well as the significance of verbal expression and diverse experiences in building deeper emotional connections.


