The Dildorks

Curiosity and creativity are the stars of the show this week, enhancing not just intimacy but overall connection. Learn how emotional intelligence and open communication are key to fulfilling sexual experiences. The hosts dive into playful activities that spark curiosity and deepen relationships. They also tackle the 'short kings' phenomenon, exploring societal attitudes toward height in dating. With personal anecdotes and practical tips, they encourage listeners to embrace empathy and explore the depths of their desires.

This episode dives into the relationship between pleasure and stress, offering insights on how to embrace joy amidst societal pressures. The hosts discuss mindfulness, self-love, and the power of daydreaming as tools to enhance well-being. Strategies for overcoming productivity anxieties are shared, alongside the importance of preparing for pleasure. The conversation also explores the nuanced experiences of gender euphoria and dysphoria, challenging stereotypes and advocating for deeper understanding. Tips for sensory enjoyment and celebrating everyday pleasures wrap up the discussion.

When times get tough, pleasure becomes more important than ever. This week, we discuss our favorite ways of accessing pleasure, and the role it plays in our lives, both in and out of the bedroom. Pleasure Activism | “A Rising Tide Lifts All Boats” | Taking the Leap | Beacon of Pleasure Permission | Our Favorite Pleasures | Cocktails & Rituals | Cleaning & Organizing | Learning & Improving | Savoring | Joy as Resistance | Pain & Masochism | Conversations | Chastity & Denial | Disordered Eating (42:00–46:50) | Alleviation of Discomfort | Trans Youth Healthcare Action Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This week we’re continuing to discuss some of our favorite films about the LGBTQ+ experience – plus a few about non-monogamy and sex work, for good measure! 750GB of Trans Content | Obsession & Bigotry | Sylvia Scarlett | Call Me Kate | Katharine Hepburn | Angels in America | Spirituality for Queers | Fellow Travelers | The Apprentice | Lavender Marriage | Some Like It Hot | Tootsie | She’s the Man | Disclosure | Mulan | Cruising | Dog Day Afternoon | The Dog | Theodora Goes Wild | Design for Living | Two Girls and a Guy | Fire Island | The Leather Boys | The Telephone Book | The Heart Machine | Love and a Major Organ | Sanctuary Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

We needed a dose of queer resilience this week (maybe you do too!), so we’re talking about some of our favorite queer films and the evolution of LGBTQ+ cinema. The News | Hope Throughout History | The Struggle | The Birdcage | The Celluloid Closet | Philadelphia | Straight Actors in Queer Roles | Making Love | Nathan & Robin on Oprah | Ben-Hur | Hays Code | Saturday Night | Coming Out & Outing People | The Children’s Hour | Shame & Self-Loathing | Framing Agnes | Cis vs. Trans Audiences | Before Stonewall | Forbidden Love | P.S. Burn This Letter Please | Kumu Hina | The Final Member | Scotty and the Secret History of Hollywood Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

The hosts dive into their favorite new fantasies for 2024, weaving in humor and honesty. They touch on the impact of plausibility in desires and the importance of communication in exploring intimacy. Discussions about workplace dynamics and how shows like 'Severance' influence sexual awareness make for intriguing insights. The exploration of gender identity and the push against traditional beauty standards add depth to their reflections. They also humorously critique exaggerated adult film portrayals, revealing how these shapes fantasies and desires.

Reflecting on their growth in sex and relationships over the past year, the hosts share their evolving perspectives on identity and intimacy. They dive into the playful dynamics of sharing space, including humorous insights on kink toys like penis pumps and cages. Virtual reality porn meets BDSM in an exploration of unique desires. The conversation highlights personal growth, community support, and the importance of self-care, all while mixing humor with thoughtful reflections on queer representation and nostalgia.

Discover how vocal tone affects attraction and intimacy in kink dynamics. The hosts explore the power of dirty talk, voice kinks, and the nuances of communication. Hear personal anecdotes about how tone enhances emotional connections and the role of vulnerability in relationships. They also delve into the artistry of authentic expression versus scripted phrases, and share intriguing experiences with unique adult toys. Plus, exciting updates on creative projects and their thoughts on deepening listener engagement.

Dive into the quirky world of fetishes, where humor meets desire! Explore unusual kinks like cream pies and the hilarious moments that can happen during intimate encounters. The hosts unpack the importance of communication in relationships, navigating social stigmas and personal preferences. Listen to personal stories about tattoos and laughter as they bridge the gap between humor and serious topics. Join this entertaining conversation that’s both insightful and whimsically engaging!

This week's discussion dives into the tantalizing world of denial kink, exploring its allure and complex dynamics. The hosts share personal stories about family influences on self-worth and the quest for validation through kink. They dissect societal narratives around desire, particularly the myths surrounding men, while also examining how denial plays a role in emotional intimacy. With a mix of humor and insight, they reflect on the psychological impacts of people-pleasing within relationships and the anticipatory thrill of delayed gratification.