

The Dildorks
Billy Lore, Kate Sloan
Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.
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Sep 24, 2024 • 1h 2min
Eat Me, Drink Me
This week Billy chats with his partner, Dee Darkholme, about their shared love of cannibalism kink. Cannibalism Is Romantic | Obsession & Limerence | Butchering & Preparing | Silence of the Lambs | Primal Mauling | Vore & Tinies | Media | Cannibalism: A Perfectly Natural History
Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.

Sep 17, 2024 • 60min
Gender Splendor
Friend of the show Mx. Nillin Lore has a new book out called How Do I Sexy?: A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers, so this week we spoke with them about trans sexuality, furries, body modifications, and more! How Do I Sexy? | ‘Own Voices’ Trans Art | I Saw the TV Glow | Beacons of Permission | Trans Joy | HRT | Don’t Have to Hate It to Change It | Good vs. Bad Doctors | Body Mods | Disturb the Comfortable | Furryism | Video Games
Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.

Sep 10, 2024 • 1h 3min
Ready For Anything
This week, we discuss how we’d prepare for a first date, a threesome, a first sex/kink conference, and a new crush, in honor of National Preparedness Month. Why Prepare? | Managing Anxiety | Neurodivergence | First Dates | Conversation Topics | Sex on the First Date | Condoms & Vibrators | Threesomes | First Con | Oncoming NRE
Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.

Sep 3, 2024 • 1h 2min
Service with a Smile
Can people-pleasers be into service kink? This week, we’re discussing our evolving relationships to providing and receiving service (sexual, domestic, and otherwise) within kink dynamics. Trauma & the Past | Explicit Instructions & Praise | Defining Service | Intentionality | Anxiety & Neurodivergence | Misdirected Service | Turn-On vs. Love Language | Purpose & Meaning | Intimacy & Being Seen | Caretaking & Attachment | Receiving Service | Self-Service | Achievement | Cleaning | Praise Without Service
Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.

Aug 27, 2024 • 1h 7min
The 400th One
The hosts celebrate a major milestone, reflecting on their growth and evolution over 400 episodes. They delve into the complexities of dating, discussing kinks, polyamory, and the importance of honest communication. Revisiting their past tweets sparks hilarious nostalgia while highlighting their journey of self-discovery. The emotional rollercoaster of crushes is explored, emphasizing mental health and the significance of diverse identities in the LGBTQ+ community. With gratitude for their supporters, they share personal anecdotes that showcase the humor and camaraderie developed through their podcasting adventure.

Aug 20, 2024 • 50min
The Vore, The Merrier
Vore is one of the most interesting and fantastical kinks out there, and this week we’re doing a deep-dive on it while continuing to discuss animated porn.Devil’s Cookie | Vore | Horror | Genital Transformation | Cis Men Writing Women | Swallowing | Cock Vore | Death By Pussy | Gender Politics | Cute Aggression | Spit | Stigma & “Weirdness”
Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.

Aug 14, 2024 • 52min
A Flirtation with Animation
Is animated porn as hot as “the real thing”? Sometimes it’s even hotter! This week we’re discussing what animated porn can do that live-action porn can’t, and the elements we most love to see in these clips. Curating Porn | Why? | Wet Dreams | Authenticity vs. Acting | Neurodivergence | Cartoonishness | “Oopsie” Series | Campiness | Sexting with an A.I. | Stuffed | Stuffed 2 | Tentacles | Mime and Dash | Voice Actors
Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.

Aug 6, 2024 • 1h 14min
Ghost in the Machine
The podcast dives deep into the ethics of ghosting, exploring its effects on dating and friendships. There’s a candid discussion on how societal norms influence communication habits, coupled with tips for establishing personal boundaries. They analyze the emotional impact of ghosting and the significance of sincere apologies when reconnecting. Personal stories add a relatable touch, while playful insights into body image and sexuality keep the conversation lively. The emphasis on community and connections wraps up the episode with warmth and humor.

Jul 30, 2024 • 54min
Pretty Little Head
Dive into the edgy realm of intelligence play, focusing on bimbofication and its intersection with kink. Reflect on the balance between intellect and vulnerability in BDSM, along with how carefree femininity can empower self-expression. Discover the significance of mental breaks and playful hypnosis for creativity. The speakers also share insights into emotional influence in BDSM experiences and discuss challenges in sexual expression within the community, all sprinkled with humor and personal stories.

Jul 23, 2024 • 1h 7min
Tongue-in-Cheek
Dive into the world of kissing with a humorous exploration of tongue use and common awkward moments. Discover the art of compatible kissing styles and the importance of clear communication in intimacy. The challenges of long-distance relationships are tackled, with innovative strategies to maintain connection. Plus, learn about a fun 'Date Kate' survey to enhance dating experiences, and get insights into polyamory within video games, adding a quirky twist to relationship dynamics!