The Dildorks

Please Please Me

Feb 4, 2025
Discover the significance of pleasure in tough times, exploring how it builds resilience and improves our lives. Engage with the concept of pleasure as resistance in marginalized communities, emphasizing joy as a powerful tool. Dive into rituals that enhance self-care, from crafting to cocktail-making, and learn about savoring pleasurable moments for well-being. The discussion touches on the relationship between pain and pleasure in kink, and the complexities of intimacy and trust in these experiences. Join in on the joys of connection through conversation!
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INSIGHT

Pleasure Raises Standards And Fuels Resistance

  • Pleasure helps people refuse bad conditions because they know how good life can be.
  • Adrienne Maree Brown's idea: experiencing pleasure raises standards and fuels resistance.
ANECDOTE

Living Authentically Changed What Felt Acceptable

  • Billy describes how living authentically made previously tolerable situations feel intolerable.
  • He credits queer/kinky community and gender exploration for raising his expectations of life.
ADVICE

Prioritize Your Own Pleasure In Sex Choices

  • Do prioritize what feels good to you when choosing sex toys or sexual activities.
  • Billy and Kate tell shoppers to pick items that maximize their own pleasure, not others' comfort.
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