

The Dildorks
Billy Lore, Kate Sloan
Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.
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Sep 10, 2024 • 1h 3min
Ready For Anything
This week, the hosts dive into the art of preparation for first dates, threesomes, and even kink conventions. They emphasize the importance of mental readiness and open communication, especially in intimate situations. With personal anecdotes, they tackle managing anxiety and setting boundaries. Listeners will appreciate tips for navigating new relationships, particularly when dealing with New Relationship Energy. The conversation is sprinkled with humor as they reflect on past crushes and the joys of community engagement.

Sep 3, 2024 • 1h 2min
Service with a Smile
This discussion dives into the complexities of service kink, examining its ties to intimacy and trauma. The hosts explore how personal experiences shape desires, emphasizing the therapeutic benefits of giving and receiving service within relationships. They share anecdotes about finding joy in acts of service, the interplay between praise and self-worth, and the emotional rewards that come from recognition. The conversation even humorously touches on the fantasy of live music as a unique form of connection in everyday life.

Aug 27, 2024 • 1h 7min
The 400th One
The hosts celebrate a major milestone, reflecting on their growth and evolution over 400 episodes. They delve into the complexities of dating, discussing kinks, polyamory, and the importance of honest communication. Revisiting their past tweets sparks hilarious nostalgia while highlighting their journey of self-discovery. The emotional rollercoaster of crushes is explored, emphasizing mental health and the significance of diverse identities in the LGBTQ+ community. With gratitude for their supporters, they share personal anecdotes that showcase the humor and camaraderie developed through their podcasting adventure.

Aug 20, 2024 • 50min
The Vore, The Merrier
Dive deep into the fantastical world of vore, exploring quirky animated porn clips like 'Devil's Cookie'. Discover the interplay of body transformation tropes and gender representation in adult storytelling. The discussion unveils the emotional intricacies of power dynamics in erotic fantasies, alongside societal stigma surrounding animated porn. Enjoy light-hearted banter while reflecting on nearly eight years of podcasting and the creative connections formed with fans. It's a wild mix of humor, horror, and insightful commentary on sexuality!

Aug 14, 2024 • 52min
A Flirtation with Animation
Is animated porn as hot as “the real thing”? Sometimes it’s even hotter! This week we’re discussing what animated porn can do that live-action porn can’t, and the elements we most love to see in these clips. Curating Porn | Why? | Wet Dreams | Authenticity vs. Acting | Neurodivergence | Cartoonishness | “Oopsie” Series | Campiness | Sexting with an A.I. | Stuffed | Stuffed 2 | Tentacles | Mime and Dash | Voice Actors
Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.

Aug 6, 2024 • 1h 14min
Ghost in the Machine
The podcast dives deep into the ethics of ghosting, exploring its effects on dating and friendships. There’s a candid discussion on how societal norms influence communication habits, coupled with tips for establishing personal boundaries. They analyze the emotional impact of ghosting and the significance of sincere apologies when reconnecting. Personal stories add a relatable touch, while playful insights into body image and sexuality keep the conversation lively. The emphasis on community and connections wraps up the episode with warmth and humor.

Jul 30, 2024 • 54min
Pretty Little Head
Dive into the edgy realm of intelligence play, focusing on bimbofication and its intersection with kink. Reflect on the balance between intellect and vulnerability in BDSM, along with how carefree femininity can empower self-expression. Discover the significance of mental breaks and playful hypnosis for creativity. The speakers also share insights into emotional influence in BDSM experiences and discuss challenges in sexual expression within the community, all sprinkled with humor and personal stories.

Jul 23, 2024 • 1h 7min
Tongue-in-Cheek
Dive into the world of kissing with a humorous exploration of tongue use and common awkward moments. Discover the art of compatible kissing styles and the importance of clear communication in intimacy. The challenges of long-distance relationships are tackled, with innovative strategies to maintain connection. Plus, learn about a fun 'Date Kate' survey to enhance dating experiences, and get insights into polyamory within video games, adding a quirky twist to relationship dynamics!

Jul 16, 2024 • 59min
Lip-Lock Talk
Kissing can reveal a lot about attraction and intimacy. The hosts explore the importance of communication in creating a safe environment for expressing desires. They delve into the nuances of making out, especially during the pandemic and long-distance relationships. Personal anecdotes illustrate the power of anticipation and emotional connection in kissing. Humorous reflections on awkward moments, like yawning mid-kiss, add a fun twist to their insightful discussions on preferences and the influence of media on intimacy.

Jul 9, 2024 • 57min
Shock, Horror!
We're continuing our discussion on emotional sadomasochism this week, covering hypnosis, negotiation, mid-scene troubleshooting, and how to subvert harmful experiences into hot scenes. Intimacy & Vulnerability | Intentional Emotional Extremes | Trauma & Triggers | Negotiation & Scene-Planning | Reassurance | Transphobia & Misogyny | 24/7 Emotional S&M | Attractiveness | Hypnosis
Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.