The Dildorks

Kissing can reveal a lot about attraction and intimacy. The hosts explore the importance of communication in creating a safe environment for expressing desires. They delve into the nuances of making out, especially during the pandemic and long-distance relationships. Personal anecdotes illustrate the power of anticipation and emotional connection in kissing. Humorous reflections on awkward moments, like yawning mid-kiss, add a fun twist to their insightful discussions on preferences and the influence of media on intimacy.

We're continuing our discussion on emotional sadomasochism this week, covering hypnosis, negotiation, mid-scene troubleshooting, and how to subvert harmful experiences into hot scenes. Intimacy & Vulnerability | Intentional Emotional Extremes | Trauma & Triggers | Negotiation & Scene-Planning | Reassurance | Transphobia & Misogyny | 24/7 Emotional S&M | Attractiveness | Hypnosis Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Sadomasochism isn’t just physical – many kinksters play with pain and discomfort in the emotional and psychological realms, too. This week we’re discussing the art of emotional S&M! What is Emotional S&M? | Enough to Make You Blush | Emotional vs. Psychological | Hot Ones | Hurts So Good | Grown-Up Playtime | Healing | Winning | Topping | Communication Tools | Channeling Bad Impulses | Abuse | Generating Ideas Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Dive into the exciting realm of first times in sexual encounters! The hosts delve into the thrill of both real and roleplayed experiences, including the complexities of virginity and power dynamics. They share personal anecdotes about role-playing scenarios, emphasizing connection and communication. Explore the mesmerizing interplay of fantasy and reality in adult content, and navigate societal pressures surrounding first experiences. With a dash of humor, this conversation celebrates intimacy and encourages a positive outlook on sexual adventures!

We’re answering listener questions this week about rimming, condoms, masturbation, fetishes, and more! Rimming | Sick People | Textured Condoms | Lifestyles Tuxedo Condoms | One Pleasure Plus | Masturbation Shame | Our Fears | Advice We Don’t Follow Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Join Billy and his partner, Dee Darkholme, as they dive into the fascinating world of unusual kinks that spice up their relationship. They share personal experiences with foot play, urination fetishes, and the evolution of their desires over time. The discussion is filled with humor and insights on intimacy, communication, and the importance of exploring new interests together. Dee's dynamic perspective adds depth as they highlight how embracing these kinks has strengthened their bond. Expect laughter and candid revelations!

This week we’re chatting with the brilliant author and podcaster Tina Horn about her new book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink! Fisting | Circlusion | Citing Sources | CNC | Bad Tweets | Footnotes | Connoisseurs | Glasses Fetish | Sex & the City | Bimbos | Gender Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Dr. Carol Queen, Good Vibrations staff sexologist & Antique Vibrator Museum curator, discusses the iconic Magic Wand vibrator's impact on pleasure, social media, and closing the orgasm gap with other guests. They explore the history, criticism, societal perceptions, and empowerment associated with using the Magic Wand, advocating for female sexual autonomy and normalization of vibrators for enhanced satisfaction.

Dive into the captivating history of the Magic Wand vibrator, a cornerstone of feminist and queer culture since 1968. Discover its evolution from a simple product to a symbol of empowerment. Listen in on fascinating interviews with influential figures in the sex-positive community. The discussion highlights the intersection of consumer culture and feminism, and explores the emotional impact of sex toys. Unveil personal connections and the transformative power of pleasure through compelling stories. Get ready for an enlightening journey through sexuality and self-love!

Changes in your kinky power dynamic can be scary and destabilizing, but they can also be exciting, healing, and necessary. This week, we discuss shifts in power we’ve experienced within our own relationships, and how we navigate them. Are We Switches? | Empathy & POV | Learning to Dominate | Receiving Caretaking | Somatics & Self-Esteem | Not Having All the Answers | Switching Within Relationships | Motivations | Kinky Flirting | What Do You Want? | People-Pleasing & Boundaries | Deciding to Change | Making Changes Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.