

The Dildorks
Billy Lore, Kate Sloan
Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.
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18 snips
Jan 7, 2025 • 56min
Long Story Short
Reflecting on their growth in sex and relationships over the past year, the hosts share their evolving perspectives on identity and intimacy. They dive into the playful dynamics of sharing space, including humorous insights on kink toys like penis pumps and cages. Virtual reality porn meets BDSM in an exploration of unique desires. The conversation highlights personal growth, community support, and the importance of self-care, all while mixing humor with thoughtful reflections on queer representation and nostalgia.

Dec 17, 2024 • 58min
Leave a Message At the Tone
Discover how vocal tone affects attraction and intimacy in kink dynamics. The hosts explore the power of dirty talk, voice kinks, and the nuances of communication. Hear personal anecdotes about how tone enhances emotional connections and the role of vulnerability in relationships. They also delve into the artistry of authentic expression versus scripted phrases, and share intriguing experiences with unique adult toys. Plus, exciting updates on creative projects and their thoughts on deepening listener engagement.

Dec 10, 2024 • 53min
One Singular Sensation
Dive into the quirky world of fetishes, where humor meets desire! Explore unusual kinks like cream pies and the hilarious moments that can happen during intimate encounters. The hosts unpack the importance of communication in relationships, navigating social stigmas and personal preferences. Listen to personal stories about tattoos and laughter as they bridge the gap between humor and serious topics. Join this entertaining conversation that’s both insightful and whimsically engaging!

Dec 3, 2024 • 1h 11min
Access Denied
This week's discussion dives into the tantalizing world of denial kink, exploring its allure and complex dynamics. The hosts share personal stories about family influences on self-worth and the quest for validation through kink. They dissect societal narratives around desire, particularly the myths surrounding men, while also examining how denial plays a role in emotional intimacy. With a mix of humor and insight, they reflect on the psychological impacts of people-pleasing within relationships and the anticipatory thrill of delayed gratification.

Nov 26, 2024 • 56min
Hello, Stranger
This week, the hosts dive into the intriguing world of parasocial relationships, exploring both the joys and challenges of having celebrity crushes. They discuss how these one-sided connections can provide emotional energy and inspiration, especially during tough times. The conversation also touches on the complexities of identity in the age of social media, revealing the balance between authenticity and curated online personas. With a blend of humor and reflection, they navigate the dynamics of masculinity and self-perception in this modern landscape.

Nov 19, 2024 • 56min
Nuttin' in Common
Dive into the intriguing world of No Nut November as Kate and her spouse delve into its cultural significance and connections to chastity kink. They explore masculinity, emotional needs, and the psychological dynamics of self-control. The discussion takes a political turn, critiquing how abstinence practices can intertwine with far-right ideologies. Personal experiences, community perspectives, and the importance of consent are highlighted throughout the conversation, creating a rich tapestry of thoughts on desire and empowerment.

Nov 12, 2024 • 57min
You Don't Know Me, But...
Delve into the fascinating world of parasocial relationships, where admiration blurs the lines between reality and fantasy. The hosts share their own experiences with these one-sided connections, critiquing the superficial nature of attachments fostered by social media. They discuss the significance of genuine interactions, the social staircase concept, and how personal traits can spark infatuation. Plus, they reflect on the political climate's impact on sexual health, emphasizing the importance of community in navigating these complex dynamics.

Oct 29, 2024 • 55min
Phantasms & Fantasies
In a Halloween-themed dive, hosts explore fantastical sexual fantasies that defy realism. They discuss how real-life experiences shape these dreams, touching on hypnosis and its role in enhancing roleplay. The conversation flows through themes of impossible fantasies versus impractical ones and the interplay between horror and sci-fi tropes. Mind-reading fantasies spark a discussion on intimacy and consent, while trickster fae and monster erotica add to the playful exploration. Love potions raise questions of obsession, all wrapped in vivid settings and imaginative mechanics.

Oct 22, 2024 • 49min
Wand-ering Down Memory Lane
In this lively discussion, sex and kink educator Billy Lore delves into the Magic Wand's impact on queer and trans experiences. He shares his first memories with the Wand, its standout features like rumbly power and ergonomic design, and its iconic status in porn. Billy highlights how the Wand's vibrations help navigate dysphoria in trans sexuality and are embraced within the queer community for creative intimacy. He also explores its role in kink, safe practices, and even its unexpected utility during surgery recovery.

Oct 15, 2024 • 52min
Are You Mad At Me?
Dive into the intriguing nuances of fear and rejection. The conversation touches on the challenges of seeking reassurance in relationships and the impact of cultural perceptions. Explore how experiences shape personal identities, especially in communities like incels, and discover the role of hormones in self-awareness. With a sprinkle of humor, the speakers share their content creation struggles and the ethics behind sponsored content, ensuring an entertaining mix of introspection and light-hearted anecdotes.


