The Dildorks

Phantasms & Fantasies

Oct 29, 2024
In a Halloween-themed dive, hosts explore fantastical sexual fantasies that defy realism. They discuss how real-life experiences shape these dreams, touching on hypnosis and its role in enhancing roleplay. The conversation flows through themes of impossible fantasies versus impractical ones and the interplay between horror and sci-fi tropes. Mind-reading fantasies spark a discussion on intimacy and consent, while trickster fae and monster erotica add to the playful exploration. Love potions raise questions of obsession, all wrapped in vivid settings and imaginative mechanics.
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INSIGHT

Fantasies Evolve With Life And Sex

  • Fantasies often shift from realistic to high-concept as life circumstances and sexual experience change.
  • Billy Lohr and Kate Sloan note fantasy functions as novelty, a mental fidget, and a space for imaginative complexity.
ANECDOTE

Distance Shapes Specific Fantasies

  • Billy Lohr describes fantasizing about his boyfriend sucking his dick less because proximity reduces tease.
  • He uses fantasy more when distance creates denial or when scenes intentionally stretch tease.
INSIGHT

Fantasy As Tease And Mental Fidget

  • Fantasy serves both as tease/denial and as a private mental fidget when physical sex is accessible or not.
  • Billy Lohr describes using fantasy to tell a story when bored or unable to act physically.
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