The Dildorks Long Story Short
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Jan 7, 2025 Reflecting on their growth in sex and relationships over the past year, the hosts share their evolving perspectives on identity and intimacy. They dive into the playful dynamics of sharing space, including humorous insights on kink toys like penis pumps and cages. Virtual reality porn meets BDSM in an exploration of unique desires. The conversation highlights personal growth, community support, and the importance of self-care, all while mixing humor with thoughtful reflections on queer representation and nostalgia.
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Sex Life Became Less Central
- Billy says his sex and dating life became less of a focal point in 2024 and that felt freeing rather than threatening.
- He replaced fixation with other creative projects and relationships, reducing drama and anxiety.
Chemistry Trumps Proximity
- Kate realized chemistry and connection matter more than proximity after developing a far-away crush in 2024.
- She became more open to long-distance relationships as viable, fulfilling options.
Yearning As A Shared Experience
- Billy describes long-distance yearning as a shared, social experience that can scratch a desire for anticipation.
- He frames it as you-and-partner-against-the-yearning rather than a private self-destructive spiral.