The Dildorks Was It Good For Me?
Aug 5, 2025
Dive into the intriguing topic of sexual selfishness as the hosts explore whether giving pleasure can be selfish. Discover how to satisfy partners with unique dynamics, including discussions on stone identity and the nuances of switch relationships. The importance of authentic communication shines through, along with insights on navigating reciprocity and boundary-setting in casual encounters. Personal anecdotes add a humorous touch, while the exploration of intimacy and consent brings depth to the conversation.
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Learning To Receive From A Stranger
- Kate describes a hookup where she had to set aside people-pleasing to receive pleasure from a near-stranger.
- She learned to trust the partner's stated fetish for her selfishness and relax into receiving.
State Your Hookup Energy
- In one-off hookups, name your current energy and preference so partners know what to expect.
- If you need more time or a different mood, suggest delaying the hookup rather than forcing a mismatch.
Bring Your Own Toy
- Bring a vibrator to hookups to signal your pleasure matters and to ensure you can orgasm.
- Use the object to communicate physical needs without lengthy explanations.
