
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

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Mar 7, 2024 • 26min
312. HEAD NOISE: A Complicated Sister-In-Law, A BF following Sexy IG Accounts, Drug Abuse in a Relationship
A complicated relationship with an abusive sister-in-law, navigating boundaries when partner likes provocative social media content, supporting a boyfriend struggling with drug abuse. Host provides advice on maintaining relationships, setting boundaries, and fostering open communication.

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Mar 5, 2024 • 24min
311. 6 Questions to Ask to Get to Know Someone
Uncover deep insights about individuals by asking 6 thought-provoking questions beyond small talk. Explore ways to improve chat game and nurture meaningful connections. Discover a card game and conversation cards to enhance relationships through deep conversations and vulnerability.

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Mar 3, 2024 • 36min
310. Forgiveness: How to Give it When You Don't Think You Can - ENCORE
Exploring the complexities of forgiveness, letting go of resentment, benefits of forgiving, power of anger, navigating forgiveness in relationships - all aimed at finding peace and closure in challenging situations.

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Feb 29, 2024 • 22min
309. HEAD NOISE: Retroactive Jealousy, STD Shame in Relationships, Attachment Styles and Crushes
Topics include dealing with a partner's jealousy of past relationships, managing a relationship affected by genital herpes disclosure, understanding limerence vs love, and the importance of communication, empathy, setting boundaries, and self-awareness in relationships.

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Feb 27, 2024 • 30min
308. How to Stop Replaying Scenarios in your Head and Ruminating Thoughts
Explore techniques to stop replaying scenarios in your head and ruminating thoughts. Learn about rumination, its impact on mental health, and strategies to break free from negative cycles. Embrace uncertainty, self-reflection, and confidence for mental well-being. Discover effective ways to stop intrusive thoughts through distractions, journaling, and meditation.

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Feb 25, 2024 • 27min
307. The Neuroscience of Willpower: How to train your brain to do hard tasks
Explore the neuroscience of willpower and training your brain to tackle challenging tasks. Learn how discomfort can lead to growth and success. Discover the brain's role in resilience and determination. Find out how willpower is like a muscle that can be strengthened through practice.

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Feb 22, 2024 • 26min
306. HEAD NOISE: Falling out of Love, and Taking a Leap to Live an Unconventional Life
Exploring falling out of love in a relationship, feeling stuck in a rut vs. calling it quits, the allure of unconventional lives, and the struggle between choosing security or adventure in life.

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Feb 20, 2024 • 29min
305. 8 Questions to Ask Yourself if You're Having Relationship Doubts
Explore relationship doubts, fears of regret, and balancing needs in relationships. Learn about communication styles, red flags, and individual happiness within partnerships. Gain insights on gaining clarity and fully committing to current relationships.

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Feb 18, 2024 • 28min
304. The Neuroscience of Endorphins: How exercise-induced euphoria grows the brain
Join guest_name_1 in exploring the neuroscience of endorphins, focusing on the impact of exercise-induced euphoria on brain development. Discover the benefits of endorphins in reducing pain, boosting mood, and enhancing memory and immune function. Dive into the connection between social and physical pain perception, debunking misconceptions about the effects of endorphins compared to morphine. Learn about the role of beta endorphins in exercise-induced euphoria and how they contribute to pain relief and improved brain health.

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Feb 15, 2024 • 41min
303. Starting Over is Hard but NOT Impossible with John Kim aka The Angry Therapist
Therapist John Kim discusses rebuilding his life after divorce and giving up his dream of being a screenwriter. Topics include embracing self-worth and personal growth, reframing breakups, acknowledging red flags in relationships, and finding purpose and self-worth in transformative moments.