Do You F*cking Mind? 376. HEADNOISE How to deal with partner's outbursts, retroactive jealousy AND how to know when to actually take that leap of faith. - Head Noise
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Nov 14, 2024 This conversation dives into tackling partner outbursts and how to handle jealousy tied to past relationships. Insights on transitioning from anxious to secure attachment reveal the importance of self-love and reflection before making decisions. The discussion also emphasizes navigating fears in decision-making and analyzing worst-case scenarios for personal growth. Plus, it touches on the unique challenges of maintaining relationships with partners who have ADHD, stressing the need for open communication and self-care.
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Handling a Partner's Retroactive Jealousy
- Communicate that his insecurity is manifesting as control.
- Retroactive jealousy is unhealthy and needs to change.
Understanding Retroactive Jealousy
- Retroactive jealousy stems from fear and insecurity, often about not measuring up to past partners.
- It manifests as a need to control your past and present.
Saved Marriage
- Alexis Fernandez Prexa shares a story of a man whose retroactive jealousy almost ended his marriage.
- Listening to her podcast helped him understand and change his behavior, saving the marriage.