
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

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May 18, 2025 • 32min
415. What is the alter ego effect and how to use it to become the person you want
Discover the intriguing concept of the alter ego effect and how it can be a powerful tool for personal growth. The hosts share fascinating insights into unlocking confidence by accessing different self-versions. Explore how embracing an alter ego can transform your identity and reveal hidden superpowers. They offer practical strategies for character creation, using physical anchors and rituals to evoke your desired traits. Tune in for relatable stories about life goals and the emotional journey of self-discovery!

17 snips
May 15, 2025 • 39min
414. Let go of the idea it could have been different (E)
Discover the power of releasing attachment to past experiences and embracing the present. Learn about hemispatial neglect and its effects on perception and daily life. Explore the challenges of treating fine motor skill awareness and how scanning therapy can enhance recovery. Delve into innovative brain treatments like prism lenses and the journey of neuroplasticity. Discuss the impact of fear on behavior, romanticizing the past, and the essential act of moving forward for personal growth.

44 snips
May 11, 2025 • 59min
413. The Life Reinvention Expert: 5 Small Shifts for Big Change with Robin Sharma
In this insightful discussion, Robin Sharma, a globally renowned author and expert on happiness, shares his journey from a successful law career to a life of purpose. He emphasizes the importance of small mindset shifts, effective morning routines, and self-identity in achieving personal growth. Sharma introduces a five-question morning maximizer and explores eight forms of wealth beyond finance. Highlighting the power of kindness and service, he encourages listeners to embrace discomfort for transformative change and find fulfillment through meaningful connections.

10 snips
May 8, 2025 • 34min
412. Navigating Personal Growth, Friendship Dynamics and Heartbreak. Head Noise
Personal listener questions kick off a deep dive into feelings of inadequacy and the quest for balance in life. The discussion highlights overcoming emotional barriers and nurturing friendships amid personal growth. Innovative ideas transform typical meet-ups into thrilling adventures, fostering deeper connections. The complexities of navigating betrayal and self-reflection in relationships are examined, especially after toxic encounters. Finally, tips on managing emotional boundaries with friends who harbor unreciprocated feelings provide essential insights.

22 snips
May 4, 2025 • 1h 1min
411. Mindset around purpose, life satisfaction & goal setting with Stefanie aka my sister
Stefanie Fernandez, a dedicated firefighter, Air Force Reservist, and CrossFit coach, joins the conversation to unpack mindset hacks for finding purpose and life satisfaction. She discusses the crucial role of goal setting and accountability in achieving fulfillment while sharing personal anecdotes that highlight the balance between performance pressures and the joy of the journey. The duo addresses rethinking relationships with food and fitness, emphasizing moderation, and shares strategies for tackling procrastination through small, actionable steps.

9 snips
May 1, 2025 • 34min
410. Navigating Life’s Big Questions: Breaking Through Creative Blocks and Imposter Syndrome
Struggling with heartbreak? Discover strategies for emotional closure and how to move past unrequited love. Find out how to stay motivated with hobbies, even when the initial excitement fades. Learn to build confidence during life changes, like going back to school. Tackle imposter syndrome and navigate the challenges of your educational journey with effective study tips. This conversation is packed with honest advice and practical strategies, offering something valuable for everyone feeling stuck or uncertain.

Apr 27, 2025 • 33min
409. Dealing with people you don’t like in the most productive way possible
Explore strategies to effectively handle difficult people while keeping your sanity intact. Discover ten invaluable tips to clarify your goals and understand others' motivations. Learn about the importance of emotional intelligence and setting boundaries in challenging relationships. Also, gain insights into how Ritalin aids focus and impulse control in those with ADHD. Get ready to transform tricky interactions into opportunities for growth.

9 snips
Apr 24, 2025 • 37min
408. Choosing yourself, breaking cycles & beginning again. Headnoise.
Listeners dive into the complexities of emotional abuse and learn to recognize subtle manipulative behaviors in relationships. The conversation shifts to the challenges of communication and intimacy, particularly in long-distance scenarios. Personal stability and self-care are emphasized as essential during life's uncertainties. Finally, the hosts stress the importance of self-awareness and transformative change, equipping listeners with strategies to enhance their relational dynamics and foster deeper connections.

25 snips
Apr 20, 2025 • 39min
407. Turn jealousy into excitement: The motivation you didn’t know you needed
Discover how to turn jealousy into excitement and empowerment! The discussion breaks down different types of jealousy, including relationship and generalized feelings. Gain insights on reframing jealousy as a motivating force in your personal growth journey. Explore fascinating genetic concepts, particularly X-linked traits, and their impact. Plus, get a sneak peek into an upcoming live show and delve into strategies to celebrate others' successes while tackling insecurity. Transform your emotions into a positive catalyst!

13 snips
Apr 17, 2025 • 17min
5 Days to Reset & Reclaim Your Mind Day 5: Overcoming any setback
Setbacks are a part of life, and this discussion teaches you how to manage them effectively. Embrace your feelings while redefining what consistency means. Learn the power of celebrating small wins and how tools like journaling can support your progress. Reflect on key insights and strategies for future growth, and get ready to take on new challenges with a resilient mindset!