Do You F*cking Mind?

Your self-worth sets the tone for everything. From your relationships to your career. In this Encore Episode, I break down six powerful, science-backed strategies to help you raise your self-worth, strengthen your identity, and stop depending on external validation for confidence. Whether you’ve been stuck in cycles of comparison, people-pleasing, or self-doubt, these tools will help you build inner trust and finally feel good in your own skin. We explore why self-worth is different from self-esteem, how your thoughts shape your identity, and what to do when you don’t feel “good enough.” You’ll also get actionable steps to start rewiring the way you see yourself without needing approval from anyone else. This one’s for anyone who’s ready to stop shrinking and start owning their space. Live show tickets - dyfmpod.com/sydney-live-show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Discover how changing your work environment can supercharge your focus and productivity! Switching up locations boosts alertness and combats the comfort-induced distractions of familiar spaces. Alexis highlights the best stimulating spots, like cafes and libraries, for creative flow. She shares her timed work sessions and a morning routine that powers her afternoons, all aimed at maximizing creativity. Plus, learn why lighting can make or break your focus, and get inspired to find your perfect workspace!

Dive into an engaging exploration of friendship dynamics as one listener shares their struggle with a long-term buddy. Analyze defensive responses and reassess expectations for strained connections. Phone anxiety gets addressed with tips on overcoming rejection fears and creating fallback plans. Reflect on the 20s as a time for exploration, not pressure, while learning to embrace setbacks as growth opportunities. Tune in for practical advice and personal anecdotes that inspire a fresh perspective!

Discover five actionable steps to declutter your life before the New Year. Alexis dives into how clearing mental noise can boost clarity. Tackle physical space with manageable cleaning tasks and enhance your environment. Explore digital detox strategies like purging your camera roll and reducing email clutter. Reflect on emotional baggage to find closure and release outdated narratives. Finally, streamline your time commitments for a more focused year ahead. Get ready to welcome 2026 with creativity and calm!

This episode dives into the tangled web of rumination and its psychological roots. Discover why your brain clings to negative thoughts and how this can fuel anxiety and depression. Learn about the various types of rumination, from intrusive to reflective. Gain insight into cognitive strategies that can help break obsessive cycles and manage regret. Practical tips like distraction and journaling are shared to aid your mental clarity. Reclaim your peace with actionable advice that encourages self-compassion and understanding.

Explore the disturbing world of Munchausen Syndrome, where individuals fabricate illnesses for attention. Discover how this condition manifests through deceptive behaviors like doctor-shopping and inducing symptoms. Delve into the chilling variant known as Munchausen by proxy, where caregivers inflict harm on dependents. Learn about the psychological impacts on victims, highlighting red flags and the complexities of diagnosis. The discussion also contrasts this syndrome with other conditions, revealing how trauma often plays a role.

Explore the paradox of attachment versus detachment and discover why clinging too tightly can lead to desperation. Learn 9 actionable steps to shift your mindset, make peace a priority, and still achieve your goals. Alexis shares insights on how emotional investments can distort judgment and emphasizes the importance of defining desires broadly to find alternative paths. Recognizing the need for self-validation and acting despite fear are key takeaways that can reshape your approach to life's challenges.

In this enlightening discussion, Alexis tackles listener questions with flair. Boundaries take center stage as she advises on managing codependency with family. She explores the fast pace of relationships, helping a tradie navigate limerence. The conversation shifts to feeling unfulfilled after early success and the importance of distinguishing between cultural guilt and genuine desire for growth. Lastly, she weighs in on moving abroad for love, emphasizing the need for compatibility beyond feelings. A thought-provoking journey awaits!