
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

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May 4, 2025 • 1h 1min
411. Mindset around purpose, life satisfaction & goal setting with Stefanie aka my sister
Stefanie Fernandez, a dedicated firefighter, Air Force Reservist, and CrossFit coach, joins the conversation to unpack mindset hacks for finding purpose and life satisfaction. She discusses the crucial role of goal setting and accountability in achieving fulfillment while sharing personal anecdotes that highlight the balance between performance pressures and the joy of the journey. The duo addresses rethinking relationships with food and fitness, emphasizing moderation, and shares strategies for tackling procrastination through small, actionable steps.

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May 1, 2025 • 34min
410. Navigating Life’s Big Questions: Breaking Through Creative Blocks and Imposter Syndrome
Struggling with heartbreak? Discover strategies for emotional closure and how to move past unrequited love. Find out how to stay motivated with hobbies, even when the initial excitement fades. Learn to build confidence during life changes, like going back to school. Tackle imposter syndrome and navigate the challenges of your educational journey with effective study tips. This conversation is packed with honest advice and practical strategies, offering something valuable for everyone feeling stuck or uncertain.

Apr 27, 2025 • 33min
409. Dealing with people you don’t like in the most productive way possible
Explore strategies to effectively handle difficult people while keeping your sanity intact. Discover ten invaluable tips to clarify your goals and understand others' motivations. Learn about the importance of emotional intelligence and setting boundaries in challenging relationships. Also, gain insights into how Ritalin aids focus and impulse control in those with ADHD. Get ready to transform tricky interactions into opportunities for growth.

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Apr 24, 2025 • 37min
408. Choosing yourself, breaking cycles & beginning again. Headnoise.
Listeners dive into the complexities of emotional abuse and learn to recognize subtle manipulative behaviors in relationships. The conversation shifts to the challenges of communication and intimacy, particularly in long-distance scenarios. Personal stability and self-care are emphasized as essential during life's uncertainties. Finally, the hosts stress the importance of self-awareness and transformative change, equipping listeners with strategies to enhance their relational dynamics and foster deeper connections.

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Apr 20, 2025 • 39min
407. Turn jealousy into excitement: The motivation you didn’t know you needed
Discover how to turn jealousy into excitement and empowerment! The discussion breaks down different types of jealousy, including relationship and generalized feelings. Gain insights on reframing jealousy as a motivating force in your personal growth journey. Explore fascinating genetic concepts, particularly X-linked traits, and their impact. Plus, get a sneak peek into an upcoming live show and delve into strategies to celebrate others' successes while tackling insecurity. Transform your emotions into a positive catalyst!

13 snips
Apr 17, 2025 • 17min
5 Days to Reset & Reclaim Your Mind Day 5: Overcoming any setback
Setbacks are a part of life, and this discussion teaches you how to manage them effectively. Embrace your feelings while redefining what consistency means. Learn the power of celebrating small wins and how tools like journaling can support your progress. Reflect on key insights and strategies for future growth, and get ready to take on new challenges with a resilient mindset!

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Apr 16, 2025 • 14min
5 Days to Reset & Reclaim Your Mind Day 4: Three Crucial Morning Steps
Discover three powerful morning steps designed to reset your mindset and enhance your day. Learn how physically writing down your intentions can boost mindfulness. Explore the essential elements of happiness, such as growth and connection, with actionable tips. Plus, uncover empowering morning practices that help you regain control and foster personal growth. Simple changes can lead to significant shifts in how you approach life!

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Apr 15, 2025 • 19min
5 Days to Reset & Reclaim Your Mind Day 3: Brain Fuel for Happiness
Discover the secrets to fueling your brain for happiness with simple daily tweaks that can shift your mindset. Learn how hydration and nutrition play pivotal roles in emotional well-being. Explore mindful practices that boost clarity and resilience against negativity. Techniques for managing emotions and enhancing sleep quality are also unveiled, providing a holistic approach to mental health. Get ready to reclaim your joy and show up as the best version of yourself!

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Apr 14, 2025 • 19min
5 Days to Reset & Reclaim Your Mind Day 2: Creating a New Focus
Explore the power of retraining your thoughts to reclaim control over your mind. Discover how embracing process-driven growth can break harmful subconscious patterns. Learn practical strategies to align your mindset with personal goals, enhancing your mental well-being. The discussion emphasizes the importance of positivity and intentionality in achieving real change. Get ready for a journey of self-improvement that encourages actionable steps towards a happier and more focused life!

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Apr 13, 2025 • 21min
5 Days to Reset & Reclaim Your Mind Day 1: Redirect & reprogram
Explore a transformative five-day mental reset designed to help you regain control and perspective. Discover research-backed strategies for acknowledging struggles and retraining your thoughts. Learn how to zoom out and reassess your life to foster a more positive mindset. Plus, catch a glimpse of an exciting live show tour and some mood-enhancing products to elevate your wellness journey!