

Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez. On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions. Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
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Nov 2, 2025 • 42min
453. Why Smart People Always Have a Plan B, C, and D
Exploring the value of having backup plans, the conversation highlights how alternatives can bolster confidence in pursuing your main goal. Fascinating details about tic disorders and the neuroscience behind them are provided. The discussion emphasizes reframing alternative plans as valid life paths that lead to unexpected fulfillment. Listeners are encouraged to envision multiple versions of their lives, reducing attachment to single outcomes and boosting creativity. It challenges the sunk cost fallacy, showing that good alternatives can empower healthier decisions.

Oct 30, 2025 • 34min
452. I Hate My Job, I Don’t Know What I’m Doing With My Life and Am I Compromising Too Much? (Headnoise)
The discussion kicks off with themes of career dissatisfaction and the challenges of making significant changes. A listener shares a scary dog attack story, sparking a talk on safety in dating. Mom guilt surfaces as someone navigates nursing school, prompting insights on balancing personal goals with parenthood. Alexis explores the nuances of compromise in relationships, highlighting the importance of maintaining self-identity. The conversation wraps up with advice on how to assess job satisfaction and relationship compatibility.

Oct 28, 2025 • 11min
Brain Fact: Morning light and it’s positive effects on mood disorders and ADHD
Discover how morning sunlight can significantly boost your mood and benefit ADHD. Learn how exposure triggers alertness and influences neurochemicals like dopamine. The discussion highlights the surprising link between solar intensity and lower ADHD rates globally. Explore the importance of maintaining a healthy light-dark cycle for better sleep and mental health. Practical tips include minimizing evening light exposure and incorporating morning movement to enhance brain function. It's an enlightening take on harnessing natural light for mental wellness!

Oct 26, 2025 • 37min
451. Charisma is learnt and how to master it.
In this episode, I talk about the neuroscience behind charisma, what makes someone magnetic, why it’s more about connection than confidence and how to build it (no matter your personality type). Whether you’re introverted, extroverted, or somewhere in between, charisma isn’t about being the loudest in the room. It’s about emotional attunement, presence and connection. I unpack the neuroscience behind why charismatic people light up our brains, the everyday habits that make you magnetic and how to lean into your own version of charisma.
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Oct 23, 2025 • 37min
450. Alexis opens up ( and answers all your questions)
In this very special episode Alexis answers all your questions you sent in.
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Oct 21, 2025 • 13min
Brain Fact: Smell & why it is the strongest trigger for emotions & memories of all the senses
Brain Fact of the week: Why smell is the strongest trigger for emotions and memories of all the senses.
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Oct 19, 2025 • 32min
449. She’s back...The Twin Birth Story
Beans! I am back & in this very special episode I am sharing the birth story of the twins.
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Oct 16, 2025 • 34min
448. Taking a leap of faith, Career pivots & breakup recovery (Headnoise)
It's Headnoise day! I answer your questions on topics like career pivoting after realising finance isn’t the right path, dealing with post-breakup emotions, and staying optimistic while job hunting. If you would like to send in a question email please email: info@dyfmpod.com or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com
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Oct 14, 2025 • 10min
Brain Fact: Ozempic
This week dives into the growing popularity of Ozempic, a diabetes drug that's being used for weight loss. Alexis explains how it works as a GLP-1 receptor agonist, affecting insulin release and blood sugar levels. Hear about its common (and rare) side effects, including nausea and hair loss. The conversation also covers why Ozempic leads to weight loss, emphasizing appetite suppression. Plus, learn about the importance of diet and lifestyle for effective use and caution against relying solely on medication!

Oct 12, 2025 • 44min
447. How memory works and tools to expand working memory
Explore the fascinating world of memory and its impact on our identity and stress levels. Discover the different types of memory—short-term, working, and long-term—and how they influence daily life. Learn tips to enhance your recall, like using mnemonics and chunking. Dive into how poor sleep and social media can harm your memory. Understand the brain's mechanisms, with insights from memory athletes and practical exercises to boost memory retention. Get ready to unlock your memory's potential!


