
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

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Feb 20, 2025 • 38min
392. The Spark Dilemma - Should you Settle or Move on? (and other Head Noise questions)
The hosts tackle the dilemma of choosing between settling for compatibility and seeking that elusive spark in relationships. They offer insights into motivating loved ones who seem glued to their devices. A poignant discussion arises about moving on from a brief, yet impactful relationship, which still lingers in one's heart. Career dissatisfaction amidst student debt is also explored, alongside the importance of emotional maturity and personal growth in both love and work. Listeners are encouraged to prioritize meaningful connections and self-discovery.

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Feb 16, 2025 • 38min
391. The Friendship Formula: Building Connections, Mantras & a Fulfilled Life with Jemma Sbeg
Join Jemma Sbeg, host of the 'Mantra' podcast, as she shares her insights on mindset and the transformative power of mantras. She explores how affirmations can shape our lives, the essential balance between luck and hard work towards happiness, and the vital role of friendships in fulfilling our emotional needs. Furthermore, Jemma discusses overcoming anxiety through self-compassion and the importance of having a supportive network. This engaging conversation inspires listeners to cultivate meaningful connections and reflect on their personal growth.

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Feb 13, 2025 • 21min
390. 3 Things to let go of today & letting go of self judgement meditation
Discover the launch of an innovative app designed for brain, body, and mind rejuvenation. Learn the importance of releasing the need for external validation to achieve personal growth. Embrace happiness by overcoming self-judgment and reframing past experiences as lessons. Dive into self-care practices that cultivate a positive mindset and address health concerns like microplastics. Enjoy a guided meditation that fosters awareness and encourages a kinder self-image.

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Feb 9, 2025 • 39min
389. Lets Talk Fentanyl - And how to KILL off decision REGRET
Dive into the complexities of fentanyl, exploring its effects, risks, and life-saving measures for overdose reversals. Discover insights on overcoming decision regret, with tips for embracing change in both personal and professional life. Hear a heartfelt discussion about navigating heartbreak and career choices, encouraging listeners to pursue their passions despite fears. Plus, get excited about a new app inspired by Parisian culture and learn about upcoming live shows that celebrate self-love and community.

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Feb 6, 2025 • 37min
388. Finding peace in tough decisions & how to move forward with confidence - Head Noise
The podcast dives into navigating tough life choices, using a pizza metaphor to illustrate uneven slices representing various life areas. It addresses feelings of loneliness after travel and offers strategies to rejuvenate daily life. The discussion shifts to the challenges of change in your twenties, emphasizing the emotional impact of new environments. Finally, listeners learn to embrace uncertainty as a chance for personal growth and self-discovery, transforming anxiety into opportunities.

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Feb 2, 2025 • 42min
387. Decide and conquer - 5 steps to sharpen your decision making skills, and redirect your future.
Dive into a five-step guide to enhance your decision-making skills! Discover different styles of decision-making and how they can shape your choices. Reflect on personal values to find clarity in your goals and prioritize happiness. Learn about the risks of overthinking and misinformation that can cloud judgment. Plus, uncover the importance of self-reflection and staying true to your desires despite societal pressures. Take control of your future and make decisions that truly resonate with you!

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Jan 30, 2025 • 39min
386. Ultimatums in a relationship - A dealbreaker or a wake up call? Head Noise
Listeners share poignant stories about feeling undervalued in friendships. The discussion emphasizes the importance of mutuality and meaningful connections for personal growth. The podcast highlights the need for spontaneity and health awareness, specifically regarding microplastics in drinking water. Relationship ultimatums are explored, revealing the balance between trust and personal autonomy. Lastly, the conversation encourages taking a step back from career pressures to reclaim joy and find fulfillment through hobbies and relationships.

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Jan 26, 2025 • 38min
385. Entering your UNBOTHERED and THRIVING era
Discover the path to becoming unbothered and thriving through five transformative keys to personal growth. Explore the importance of self-worth in relationships and the power of redirecting energy towards those who value you. Learn how self-awareness and emotional control can help manage feelings of unappreciation. Embrace the spectrum of emotions and uncover effective strategies for emotional detachment, ensuring a calm, joyful, and resilient life. Plus, exciting news about an upcoming live show tour to inspire your journey!

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Jan 23, 2025 • 17min
2025 Rebrand & Glow Up Day 10: The grass is greener where you water it
Delve into the power of intentional living and discover why focusing on the positives can transform your life. Hear relatable stories that inspire you to nurture your relationships and personal growth. The discussion emphasizes that fulfillment comes from actively investing in your current situation, rather than yearning for greener pastures. Embrace the journey and cultivate the life you want, because the grass truly thrives where you water it!

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Jan 22, 2025 • 12min
2025 Rebrand & Glow Up Day 9: We are leaving the past in the past
Explore the power of embracing change as a pathway to personal transformation. The discussion highlights the importance of leaving behind outdated identities and experiences that no longer serve you. Discover how to cut ties with unhelpful habits and relationships, making room for new beginnings. Courage is key in navigating discomfort while stepping boldly into a brighter future. Tune in for insights on fostering growth by letting go of what holds you back!
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