

Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez. On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions. Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
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Oct 9, 2025 • 40min
446. Reinventing Yourself in Your 20s, Toxic Relationships & Moving On from Almost-Love (Headnoise)
In today's podcast episode, I answer YOUR questions on finding joy and comfort in your 20s, overcoming toxic relationship patterns and managing introversion and social anxiety with practical tips like rejection therapy. If you would like to send in a question email please email: info@dyfmpod.com or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com
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Oct 7, 2025 • 10min
Brain Fact: Omega 3
Dive into the fascinating world of omega-3, specifically DHA, and its crucial role in brain health. Learn how it enhances neuron communication and supports mental health, reducing anxiety and depression. Discover its importance for fetal and childhood development, boosting cognition and attention. Explore dietary sources like fish and algae while receiving helpful supplementation guidance. This engaging discussion highlights how vital DHA is for both your brain and overall well-being!

Oct 5, 2025 • 43min
445. You don't have to be the victim anymore
I discuss the concept of victimhood and the difference between being a victim and adopting a victim mentality as part of your identity. Learn how to recognise when you're playing the victim, its negative impacts, and how to break free from this mindset. I provide practical steps to help you regain control and empower yourself.
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Oct 2, 2025 • 26min
444. Tips on Light Therapy, Introversion & Productive Morning Routines (Headnoise)
Headnoise episodes are back! In this week's Head Noise episode, I answer all your voice messages and cover a range of topics. From the importance of sunlight for cortisol regulation in different climates to tips for overcoming the challenges of speaking up as an introvert and building social confidence, and finally, understanding the role of dopamine in morning routines and how it impacts motivation throughout the day. If you would like to send in a question email please email: info@dyfmpod.com or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com
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Sep 30, 2025 • 12min
Psychology Fact: Reverse Psychology
Discover the intriguing world of reverse psychology. Learn how this tactic works by prompting someone to do the opposite of what you ask. Explore its effectiveness in motivating people and the autonomy they feel when asserting control. Find out who cleverly uses it in relationships, and how to spot when it's in play. Plus, pick up strategies to resist its influence in a healthy way. Delve into the fine line between playful persuasion and toxic manipulation!

Sep 28, 2025 • 49min
443. “The Negotiation Hack That Will Change Your Whole Life - What is BATNA and how to use it effectively
Beans! This episode is ALL about not selling yourself short and the concept of BATNA (Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement.) I give you tools to understand your value and options, empowering you to negotiate better in relationships, careers, and various life scenarios without feeling desperate or stuck. I give you prompts to help you strengthen your BATNA for improved decision-making and self-empowerment. Downloadable sheet here https://www.dyfmpod.com/worksheets
Brain Fact: Helium
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Sep 25, 2025 • 23min
Self Love Mini Series Day 5: Independence - The Key to Increasing Self Love
Explore the powerful link between independence and self-love. Discover the difference between healthy independence and trauma-driven hyper-independence. Learn how maintaining autonomy enhances relationships and boosts confidence. Alexis shares tips for enjoying solo activities and encourages you to assess your choices in relationships. Master the art of saying no with confidence and ensure healthy boundaries with others. Understand how independence can elevate your self-love and lead to more fulfilling connections.

Sep 24, 2025 • 24min
Self Love Mini Series Day 4: Self Efficacy Building Confidence and Capability
Explore the powerful concept of self-efficacy, the belief in your ability to conquer challenges. Discover the contrast between high and low self-efficacy behaviors, and how to cultivate a mindset of resilience through small victories. Learn tips like selecting supportive role models and reframing nerves as excitement before challenges. Emphasize progress over perfection and harness logical optimism to bounce back from setbacks. Finally, reflect on four key questions to uncover your desired capabilities and strengthen your self-belief.

Sep 23, 2025 • 25min
Self Love Mini Series Day 3: Where to Find Self Love
Dive into a journey of self-love where inner worth takes center stage! Discover how exiting toxic relationships can restore your self-respect. Learn to see past mistakes as lessons rather than burdens. Embrace body respect to lay a foundation for love and make small promises to yourself to build trust. Get comfortable with solitude to enhance self-awareness and explore hobbies that nourish your soul. Ultimately, recognize that the love you seek is already within you, paving the way for healthier connections.

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Sep 22, 2025 • 16min
Self Love Mini Series Day 2: Self-Worth A Key Pillar of Self Love
Dive into the deep waters of self-worth, a crucial pillar of self-love. Learn why feeling valuable and deserving is essential for confidence. Discover practical, research-backed strategies to recognize your worth. Uncover how genuine care and respect for yourself can foster connections and growth. Plus, get tips on tracking your self-worth daily with a simple four-question practice. Wrap it all up with reminders to be kind to yourself and protect your boundaries!


