Do You F*cking Mind? 460. Do I stay or do I go? (Headnoise)
Nov 27, 2025
In this enlightening discussion, Alexis tackles listener questions with flair. Boundaries take center stage as she advises on managing codependency with family. She explores the fast pace of relationships, helping a tradie navigate limerence. The conversation shifts to feeling unfulfilled after early success and the importance of distinguishing between cultural guilt and genuine desire for growth. Lastly, she weighs in on moving abroad for love, emphasizing the need for compatibility beyond feelings. A thought-provoking journey awaits!
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Protect Your Peace With Boundaries
- Prioritize your peace by setting strict boundaries with triggering family members.
- Limit visit length, choose safer activities, and avoid trying to change them directly.
You Can Only Lead By Example
- Leading by example is the only influence you realistically have on family change.
- Trying to inspire or force their journey often backfires and harms your progress.
Use Time-Limited Meetups To Reduce Triggers
- Use time-limited, purpose-driven meetups to reduce pressure and triggers with family.
- Start with short 'pockets of quality time' and extend them as you heal.