

Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez. On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions. Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
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Jul 10, 2025 • 36min
430. Setting Boundaries & Reclaiming Peace with Narcissistic Relationships (Headnoise)
Welcome back, beautiful beans! In today's head noise episode, we hear an amazing story from a listener, a leap-of-faith move (even after rekindling an old flame), navigating a narcissistic parent and handling unsolicited comments.
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Jul 6, 2025 • 42min
429. Signs you are in a Functional Freeze & how to break out of it
I discuss the concept of 'functional freeze.' What it is, why it happens & how you can break out of it & lead a more fulfilling life.
Brain Fact Munchies effect of THC and how it interacts with the brain's cannabinoid receptors.
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Jul 3, 2025 • 43min
428. Should I have told my friend her partner was cheating on her? & other friendship dilemmas. (Headnoise)
Beans! In this Headnoise episode, I cover everything from dealing with a friend’s cheating partner to navigating friendships drifting apart. I give some tips & advice on what I would do in these situations for anyone facing similar struggles.
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Jun 29, 2025 • 35min
427. Breaking out of your phone addiction and learning what rat park can teach you about it.
Welcome to today's episode! I am so pumped about this episode, I talk all about breaking social media addiction and that constant phone scroll. I’ll also share the learnings of the Rat Park study by Dr. Bruce Alexander and what it teaches us about how our environment and connections impact addiction.
I’ll give you some practical tips to cut down on social media and start creating your own ‘Rat Park’ - a life full of connection and limit compulsive behaviours.
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Jun 26, 2025 • 34min
426. Navigating attachment styles, long distance relationships & breakups. (Headnoise)
Beans! Today's episode is a head noise episode. We've got questions about breaking up a long distance, moving versus not moving, avoidant attachment style & breakups!
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Jun 22, 2025 • 36min
425. How to write the most effective to do list EVER so you can feel great after (and other focus tips)
Feeling overwhelmed by tasks? This discussion dives into the art of crafting effective to-do lists. Discover the difference between soft and hard actions to prioritize effectively. Learn how to identify tasks that need deep focus versus quick wins. Plus, get insights on time-blocking to maintain productivity without burning out. It's all about enhancing motivation and finding joy in tackling your daily duties!

Jun 19, 2025 • 42min
424. Friendship Red Flags, Jealousy & Feeling Like a Fraud. (Headnoise)
It's Headnoise Friday, where I answer questions you sent in. From confronting the idea that your bestie might be a gold digger, to navigating jealousy in relationships and the sting of a lost friendship. I give you tips & practical advice on how to handle the situations.
If you would like to send in a question email please email: info@dyfmpod.com or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com
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Jun 15, 2025 • 46min
423. How to f*ck up a good thing by looking for something else only to lose it all
Feeling like there's something better out there can sabotage our happiness. The conversation explores the fine line between seeking growth and appreciating what's already valuable in our lives. Discover practical tips to recognize the worth of relationships, jobs, and personal goals. A fascinating discussion on innovative mood-enhancing gummies also highlights their quick effects and engagement strategies. This is a must-listen for anyone who’s ever questioned whether to stay or move on!

Jun 12, 2025 • 35min
422. Thriving Solo & Choosing Yourself First. (Headnoise)
Guys welcome to a Headnoise episode where I answer your questions!
Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to info@dyfmpod.com.
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Jun 10, 2025 • 40min
421. Live Show Questions - Imposter syndrome, big decisions, Tips for improving memory and more
In a lively discussion, the hosts tackle listener questions sparked by their recent live show. They share insights on navigating big life changes while preparing for twins, emphasizing the need for stability. Strategies for enhancing memory retention are uncovered, particularly the power of teaching others. The conversation bravely addresses imposter syndrome and the importance of recognizing personal achievements. They challenge stereotypes around change and encourage seizing transformative opportunities instead of waiting for a crisis.