

Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez. On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions. Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
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Nov 23, 2025 • 41min
459. The Top Belief of people with High Self Esteem
Explore the intriguing traits of high self-esteem and how they shape our lives! Learn about the importance of vulnerability in relationships and the power of knowing your strengths. Discover how setting realistic expectations can transform self-perception. Alexis highlights the significance of emotional intelligence and navigating social interactions without personalizing others' behaviors. Plus, practical tips for boosting your self-esteem through self-reflection and asking for help make this a must-listen!

Nov 20, 2025 • 32min
458. Building Deeper Adult Friendship & more (Headnoise)
In this lively discussion, listeners learn how to deepen new adult friendships by crafting shared experiences. Playful suggestions like escape rooms spark joy and connection. Tips on resolving sibling conflicts emphasize the importance of managing expectations. The conversation also touches on healing post-breakup by filling time with meaningful hobbies and nurturing friendships. Prioritizing time with friends apart from partners highlights the necessity of maintaining those essential bonds. A dose of humor and wisdom keeps the insights relatable!

Nov 18, 2025 • 10min
Brain Fact: Neurofibrillary Tangles
Brain Fact of the week: Neurofibrillary Tangles
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Nov 16, 2025 • 46min
457. The Psychology of Empowered Dating
This episode is brought to you by Bumble. Today's episode is all about The Psychology of Empowered Dating. Whether you're re-entering the dating scene or just looking for a fresh approach, this episode is for you. I talk about navigating dating apps, setting healthy boundaries and dating with confidence. I give you tips on how to avoid emotional traps and teach people how to treat you.
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Nov 13, 2025 • 41min
456. Navigating Relationship Dilemmas and Finding Inner Peace (Headnoise)
Beans, I am so excited to announce I am going on tour in Sydney for, "Lost, But Make It Look Intentional." Tickets are available to purchase here
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Nov 11, 2025 • 12min
Brain Fact: Aphantasia: When You Can’t Picture It
Brain Fact of the week: Aphantasia
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Nov 9, 2025 • 30min
455. The Neuroscience behind brain dumping. Does your language align with your desires?
Explore how our language shapes our thoughts and behaviors! Learn the importance of aligning your self-talk with your true desires for better clarity and authenticity in communication. Discover the impact of mindful language on relationships and how to shift from people-pleasing to honesty. Gain insights into the subconscious mind's interpretation of language, and receive actionable tips to redefine limiting beliefs. Uncover small yet powerful language changes that can propel you toward your goals and create a more fulfilling life!

Nov 6, 2025 • 37min
454. The Neuroscience around love & keeping the spark alive & more (Headnoise)
It's Headnoise day, I answer your questions on handling locker room talk to understanding your partner's commitment issues to the neuroscience behind keeping the spark alive in long-term relationships and learning how to balance independence within a relationship.
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Nov 2, 2025 • 42min
453. Why Smart People Always Have a Plan B, C, and D
Exploring the value of having backup plans, the conversation highlights how alternatives can bolster confidence in pursuing your main goal. Fascinating details about tic disorders and the neuroscience behind them are provided. The discussion emphasizes reframing alternative plans as valid life paths that lead to unexpected fulfillment. Listeners are encouraged to envision multiple versions of their lives, reducing attachment to single outcomes and boosting creativity. It challenges the sunk cost fallacy, showing that good alternatives can empower healthier decisions.

Oct 30, 2025 • 34min
452. I Hate My Job, I Don’t Know What I’m Doing With My Life and Am I Compromising Too Much? (Headnoise)
The discussion kicks off with themes of career dissatisfaction and the challenges of making significant changes. A listener shares a scary dog attack story, sparking a talk on safety in dating. Mom guilt surfaces as someone navigates nursing school, prompting insights on balancing personal goals with parenthood. Alexis explores the nuances of compromise in relationships, highlighting the importance of maintaining self-identity. The conversation wraps up with advice on how to assess job satisfaction and relationship compatibility.


