
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

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Feb 6, 2025 • 37min
388. Finding peace in tough decisions & how to move forward with confidence - Head Noise
The podcast dives into navigating tough life choices, using a pizza metaphor to illustrate uneven slices representing various life areas. It addresses feelings of loneliness after travel and offers strategies to rejuvenate daily life. The discussion shifts to the challenges of change in your twenties, emphasizing the emotional impact of new environments. Finally, listeners learn to embrace uncertainty as a chance for personal growth and self-discovery, transforming anxiety into opportunities.

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Feb 2, 2025 • 42min
387. Decide and conquer - 5 steps to sharpen your decision making skills, and redirect your future.
Dive into a five-step guide to enhance your decision-making skills! Discover different styles of decision-making and how they can shape your choices. Reflect on personal values to find clarity in your goals and prioritize happiness. Learn about the risks of overthinking and misinformation that can cloud judgment. Plus, uncover the importance of self-reflection and staying true to your desires despite societal pressures. Take control of your future and make decisions that truly resonate with you!

12 snips
Jan 30, 2025 • 39min
386. Ultimatums in a relationship - A dealbreaker or a wake up call? Head Noise
Listeners share poignant stories about feeling undervalued in friendships. The discussion emphasizes the importance of mutuality and meaningful connections for personal growth. The podcast highlights the need for spontaneity and health awareness, specifically regarding microplastics in drinking water. Relationship ultimatums are explored, revealing the balance between trust and personal autonomy. Lastly, the conversation encourages taking a step back from career pressures to reclaim joy and find fulfillment through hobbies and relationships.

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Jan 26, 2025 • 38min
385. Entering your UNBOTHERED and THRIVING era
Discover the path to becoming unbothered and thriving through five transformative keys to personal growth. Explore the importance of self-worth in relationships and the power of redirecting energy towards those who value you. Learn how self-awareness and emotional control can help manage feelings of unappreciation. Embrace the spectrum of emotions and uncover effective strategies for emotional detachment, ensuring a calm, joyful, and resilient life. Plus, exciting news about an upcoming live show tour to inspire your journey!

9 snips
Jan 23, 2025 • 17min
2025 Rebrand & Glow Up Day 10: The grass is greener where you water it
Delve into the power of intentional living and discover why focusing on the positives can transform your life. Hear relatable stories that inspire you to nurture your relationships and personal growth. The discussion emphasizes that fulfillment comes from actively investing in your current situation, rather than yearning for greener pastures. Embrace the journey and cultivate the life you want, because the grass truly thrives where you water it!

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Jan 22, 2025 • 12min
2025 Rebrand & Glow Up Day 9: We are leaving the past in the past
Explore the power of embracing change as a pathway to personal transformation. The discussion highlights the importance of leaving behind outdated identities and experiences that no longer serve you. Discover how to cut ties with unhelpful habits and relationships, making room for new beginnings. Courage is key in navigating discomfort while stepping boldly into a brighter future. Tune in for insights on fostering growth by letting go of what holds you back!

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Jan 21, 2025 • 11min
2025 Rebrand & Glow Up Day 8: Nailing your consistency
Dive into the secrets of mastering consistency! Discover how embracing flexibility can spark personal growth and boost productivity. Learn about the innovative 'no two days off in a row' strategy, ensuring that small, steady efforts lead to big transformations. The discussion emphasizes the power of habit tracking and using a brain journal to enhance well-being. Uncover the balance between discipline and occasional breaks, making sure you stay on track for your goals!

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Jan 20, 2025 • 16min
2025 Rebrand & Glow Up Day 7: Effectively directing your focus
Discover how effective time management and time blocking can sharpen your focus and skyrocket your productivity. Delve into the myths of multitasking and learn why concentrating on one task at a time is key for creativity. Explore the surprising benefits of boredom in fostering cognitive growth, especially in kids. Plus, hear about the importance of clean drinking water for mental clarity. It's a deep dive into mastering your focus for a transformative glow-up!

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Jan 19, 2025 • 15min
2025 Rebrand & Glow Up Day 6: Defining your non negotiables & sticking to it
Dive into the journey of self-discovery by identifying your personal non-negotiables! Reflect on past regrets to clarify what truly matters in your life. Explore how to make intentional choices that enhance relationships and promote self-care. Get ready to level up your life by standing firm in your values and commitments!

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Jan 16, 2025 • 15min
2025 Rebrand & Glow Up Day 5: How to effectively calm your mind at anytime
Discover effective techniques for achieving mental calmness and enhancing overall well-being. Learn to manage anxiety through practical strategies like naming your feelings and adjusting your surroundings. Embrace the idea that it's normal to experience unpleasant emotions, and gain tools to regain control over your mind. This guide offers a path to a more balanced existence, perfect for anyone looking to harness their inner peace at any moment.