

Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez. On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions. Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
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Aug 28, 2025 • 39min
The Psychology of Standards: Why You Keep Setting the Bar Too Low(E)
Stop playing small. In this episode of Do You F**ing Mind?*, I break down why so many of us keep setting the bar too low; in relationships, in our careers, and in the standards we hold for ourselves. Using psychology and neuroscience, we explore:
Why your brain tricks you into settling for less than you deserve
How low standards slowly kill your confidence and self-worth
The hidden link between fear, comfort zones, and “just enough” living
Practical strategies to raise the bar in love, work, and personal growth
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I settling?”, this episode will help you raise your standards, reclaim your confidence, and finally demand the life you actually want.
Brain Fact: Explaining Urbach Wiethe Disease.
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Aug 26, 2025 • 9min
Science Fact: Why Milk is better at hydrating than water
Science Fact of the week: Why Milk is better at hydrating than water.
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Aug 24, 2025 • 49min
How to REALLY stop caring about what people think of you (E)
How do you stop caring about what people think of you? How can you let go of the things that keep you from living the life you want? This question is so crippling for so many of us, but there IS a simple solution. In this episode we’ll learn how to deal with these feelings in a way that don't consume you and stop you from going on with your life. I'll give you my 7 steps to overcome falling into the trap of caring what people think about you!
Brain Fact: Central Sensitization and chronic pain.
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Aug 21, 2025 • 29min
442. My partner thinks the world is ending & more (Headnoise)
Beans it's Headnoise Friday! I answer your email questions about loneliness in high school, feeling burnt out and uninspired during the final months of university & taking control of one's life. If you would like to send in a question email please email: info@dyfmpod.com or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com
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Aug 19, 2025 • 9min
Science Fact: The Women Who Can Smell Parkinson's
Science fact of the week: The Women Who Can Smell Parkinson's.
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Aug 17, 2025 • 45min
441. The Neuroscience behind determination
Today's episode is all about determination from a neuroscience and psychology perspective. I talk about the difference between motivation and determination and give you practical tools & strategies.
Episodes mentioned with links: Episode 368 & Episode 370.
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Aug 14, 2025 • 37min
440. When Setting a Boundary Makes You the Villain (Headnoise)
It's Head Noise day! I answer your questions on setting boundaries, handling difficult friendships and dealing with family influence in relationships.
How can you set a boundary without becoming the villain? What to do when your friend turns on you because you try and create a healthy boundary? How to deal with your partners family influencing your relationship and MORE.
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Aug 10, 2025 • 32min
439. How to put someone in the past and leave them there for good
Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is let go. In this episode of Do You F**ing Mind?, I talk all about moving the fck on from people who no longer deserve a place in your life. Whether it’s an ex who drains you, a toxic friend who keeps pulling you down, or a colleague who sabotages your confidence, you’ll learn how to recognize when it’s time to cut ties and how to actually do it without guilt.
Inside this episode:
The psychology of why we hold onto relationships that hurt us
Neuroscience-backed strategies for breaking emotional attachments
How to spot toxic patterns early and stop excusing bad behavior
Practical tools to build boundaries and move forward with confidence
If you’ve ever struggled to let go, this episode will give you the clarity and mindset shift you need to finally release what’s holding you back, and step into a healthier, stronger version of yourself.. Episode referenced: 21. Dealing with Cooked Duds that Are Stuck in Your Life.
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Aug 7, 2025 • 39min
438. How to Stop Overthinking in a Healthy Relationship & more (Headnoise)
In this Head Noise episode of Do You F**ing Mind?*, I answer your biggest questions on love, life, and everything in between. From navigating the ups and downs of modern relationships, to making life-changing decisions about whether or not to have children, to dealing with the messy reality of complicated friendships.
In this ep:
How to recognise red flags and build healthier relationships
Things to consider when making major life decisions, (like having kids)
Psychology-backed strategies for handling toxic or complicated friendships
Tools to trust yourself when faced with uncertainty
This episode will give you clarity, confidence, and the mindset shift you need to move forward.
navigating complicated friendships
deciding whether to have children
psychology of relationships
life decisions and clarity
toxic friendship advice
personal growth and relationship
confidence in decision making
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Aug 6, 2025 • 45min
437. The neuroscience of loneliness…the silent stress you can fix
In today's episode, we dive deep into the topic of loneliness. I discuss the difference between loneliness and solitude, the health implications of feeling isolated, and what happens in the brain when you experience loneliness. I give you actionable steps to help you overcome loneliness and build meaningful connections.
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