
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

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Dec 8, 2024 • 43min
382. Discipline will change your life. From chaos to clarity how discipline changes everything.
Explore how discipline can be a liberating force in personal growth. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-discipline and accountability for achieving goals. Discover actionable steps to overcome self-delusion and build trust in yourself. Personal anecdotes reveal how establishing routines can lead to emotional stability and mental clarity. Embrace discipline to transform chaos into productivity and regain a sense of control in your daily life.

Dec 5, 2024 • 29min
PT 2. HEADNOISE: Navigating awkward dynamics when your spouses (girl) friend crosses the line & MORE. Part 2
The discussion dives into the emotional challenges of relationship endings, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and enjoying solitude. It also tackles the tricky dynamics of friends crossing boundaries, offering strategies for reclaiming personal space. Listeners can learn about the value of self-love after toxic relationships and the need for self-reflection. Additionally, there's insight into building emotional attachments and the impact of verbal validation, along with tips for fostering healthier connections in love.

Dec 5, 2024 • 28min
381. HEAD NOISE: Friendship ultimatum - is love worth losing a friend over? Part 1
Navigating the complexities of friendship and romance takes center stage as listeners tackle friendship ultimatums. Emotional dilemmas arise when a romantic interest overlaps with a best friend's past. The conversation also dives into the challenges of introducing new partners to children and maintaining healthy boundaries with narcissistic family members. Emotional resilience is key as they explore self-preservation and recognizing toxic patterns, emphasizing the importance of mental health in all relationships.

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Dec 3, 2024 • 12min
FOCUS: It's never too late. How to stop the narrative.
Aging can be a liberating experience if we shift our perspective! Embrace the idea that it's never too late for new beginnings or personal transformations. Society often pressures us, especially women, to conform, but redefining your life narrative is empowering. Learn to reconnect with your inner child to foster personal growth and fulfillment. Break free from comparison and discover the joy of pursuing happiness at any age!

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Dec 1, 2024 • 48min
380. Vision Boarding & visualisation: what is it & how to practice it effectively
Get ready to dive into the vibrant world of vision boarding! The hosts share a hilarious journey of crafting their boards, accentuated by amusing tech mishaps. They highlight the importance of a supportive environment and discuss how visualization can bridge the gap between dreams and reality. With insights into upcoming live shows and personal aspirations, the conversation emphasizes the emotional and scientific benefits of turning vision into manifestation. Buckle up for a creative adventure that inspires and motivates!

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Nov 28, 2024 • 30min
PT 2. HEAD NOISE: Overcoming Winter Blues, Maintaining Independence & perfectionism. PT 2
Winter blues? Not anymore! Dive into strategies for managing seasonal affective disorder and the importance of sunlight and routine. Discover how to adapt your exercise and nutrition for colder months. Personal growth shines as listeners share stories of companionship and goal-setting during the holidays. Plus, explore the delicate balance of independence in relationships and the dangers of perfectionism. Celebrate progress over perfection and embrace the season with a positive mindset!

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Nov 28, 2024 • 23min
379. HEADNOISE: What do my dreams mean, starting a new job & more! Part 1
Explore the ups and downs women face before their period, with remedies and listener voicemails adding a personal touch. Enjoy a humorous recount of a Melbourne mishap, leading to discussions on sleep and dreams. Dig into the emotional ties of dreams from past relationships, with coping strategies for emotional growth. Address relationship intimacy through communication and compromise. Finally, tackle the challenges of personal and professional change while reassuring listeners that adaptability will ultimately prevail.

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Nov 26, 2024 • 8min
FOCUS: Stop searching in others what is already within you.
Explore the journey of self-discovery as listeners learn to harness their inner strengths instead of seeking validation outside themselves. The discussion emphasizes personal accountability and self-sufficiency for genuine happiness and motivation. Find out how taking charge of your choices and relationships can lead to meaningful personal growth. Recognizing dependencies on others is key to tapping into your own power and potential.

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Nov 24, 2024 • 43min
Turning desperation into attraction and REALLY getting what you want in life (E)
The discussion begins with vision boarding and positive mindset strategies for the new year. It dives into the paradox of how desperation can push away what we desire, spotlighting self-sabotage. An intriguing look at local anesthetics reveals their critical role in pain management. The conversation then shifts to overcoming heartbreak, prioritizing self-worth, and embracing new beginnings. It's all about transforming emotions and reframing perspectives to create a fulfilling life.

Nov 21, 2024 • 24min
Head Noise Pt 2. Living with Painful family members, and change of career but I have just finished uni.
Welcome to Part 2 of this week's Head Noise. The Email edition! On this episode we go over: How to deal with controlling and negative relatives that you live with, where you have very little freedoms and it is affecting other relationships. What to do if you are just finishing your degree but already know you are passionate about something else but do not want to disappoint those around you by starting again. AND MORE. If you want to send in your email questions send yours in to info@dyfmpod.com DANKE. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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