

Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez. On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions. Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
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Jul 31, 2025 • 36min
436. Codependency in New Relationships, Future Plans & Life Decisions (Headnoise)
The discussion dives into the fine line between effective communication and codependency in new relationships. Listeners learn how to navigate differing backgrounds and expectations while maintaining personal boundaries. The complexities of returning home after traveling are explored, highlighting emotional ties and the desire for adventure. Themes of adaptability and resilience are emphasized, encouraging listeners to embrace change and foster healthy connections as they navigate life decisions.

Jul 27, 2025 • 44min
435. How to get past the fear of disappointing others
The fear of disappointing others can stifle personal freedom and happiness. It’s rooted in psychological influences like upbringing and the high achiever mentality. Insights into death cap mushrooms serve as a chilling reminder of life and death's complexities. The discussion highlights the quest for self-validation and prioritizing personal needs over external opinions. Understanding the difference between fair and weaponized disappointment is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships and navigating life's tough decisions.

Jul 24, 2025 • 42min
434. Breaking Free from Old Patterns & more (Headnoise)
Welcome back, beautiful beans! I answer your questions you sent in, I go over the the concept of 'core coding' and how to overcome ingrained beliefs from childhood, particularly those rooted in religious guilt. I also talk through the challenge of making life altering decisions without disrupting the good things already present in our lives. Then I discuss balancing multiple passion projects and identifying when we might be overcommitting ourselves to avoid burnout & lastly how to manage overwhelming stress.
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Jul 20, 2025 • 40min
433. Why Impermanence is the most grounding thing you will learn
In today's episode I talk all about impermanence & how embracing change can lead to a freer, more confident and fulfilling life.
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Jul 17, 2025 • 30min
432. How to Stop Being the 'Righteous Friend' (Headnoise)
It's Headnoise Day! I answer some email questions you sent in from how to stop being the 'righteous friend' who constantly calls out friends to overcoming burnout!
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Jul 13, 2025 • 32min
431. 6 questions to ask yourself to know if you are on the right path.
Beans! In this episode I give you 6 questions to ask yourself to know if you are on the right path. These questions are designed to help you gain clarity and realign your life path.
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Jul 10, 2025 • 36min
430. Setting Boundaries & Reclaiming Peace with Narcissistic Relationships (Headnoise)
Welcome back, beautiful beans! In today's head noise episode, we hear an amazing story from a listener, a leap-of-faith move (even after rekindling an old flame), navigating a narcissistic parent and handling unsolicited comments.
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Jul 6, 2025 • 42min
429. Signs you are in a Functional Freeze & how to break out of it
I discuss the concept of 'functional freeze.' What it is, why it happens & how you can break out of it & lead a more fulfilling life.
Brain Fact Munchies effect of THC and how it interacts with the brain's cannabinoid receptors.
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Jul 3, 2025 • 43min
428. Should I have told my friend her partner was cheating on her? & other friendship dilemmas. (Headnoise)
Beans! In this Headnoise episode, I cover everything from dealing with a friend’s cheating partner to navigating friendships drifting apart. I give some tips & advice on what I would do in these situations for anyone facing similar struggles.
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Jun 29, 2025 • 35min
427. Breaking out of your phone addiction and learning what rat park can teach you about it.
Welcome to today's episode! I am so pumped about this episode, I talk all about breaking social media addiction and that constant phone scroll. I’ll also share the learnings of the Rat Park study by Dr. Bruce Alexander and what it teaches us about how our environment and connections impact addiction.
I’ll give you some practical tips to cut down on social media and start creating your own ‘Rat Park’ - a life full of connection and limit compulsive behaviours.
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