
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

Dec 22, 2024 • 36min
Your Breakup Manual - 9 Steps (E)
Discover nine essential steps to heal after a breakup. Explore the emotional journey of letting go and focus on self-growth instead of seeking validation. Learn about breaking the cycle of hurtful habits and how to manage feelings of resentment. Delve into the fascinating Alice in Wonderland syndrome and its neurological implications. Gain insights on fostering independence while navigating the complex feelings involved in post-relationship communication. Embrace the path to recovery and closure with practical strategies for moving forward.

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Dec 19, 2024 • 43min
The limit of your self worth lies in how you let others treat you (E)
The discussion kicks off with the link between self-worth and how we allow ourselves to be treated by others. It dives into the importance of setting boundaries in relationships and recognizing toxic friendships. The conversation includes strategies for breaking the cycle of blame that often impacts self-esteem. Additionally, listeners are introduced to revolutionary stem cell innovations that hold the promise of transforming treatment for brain diseases. It's an insightful exploration of personal growth and self-reflection.

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Dec 17, 2024 • 9min
FOCUS: How to become more self assured.
Dive into the art of self-assurance and the power of embracing personal choices. Discover the importance of prioritizing your own desires over societal expectations. Learn to confidently say no and see personal growth as a fulfilling journey. This conversation inspires you to cultivate independence and break free from external pressures, helping you feel more grounded and secure in your identity.

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Dec 15, 2024 • 54min
384. How to stop putting up with peoples’ bullsh*t & set a standard for how you are treated.
Dive into the art of setting boundaries and demanding respect in relationships. Discover the benefits of L-theanine for stress relief and cognitive function. Learn how to prioritize self-respect over seeking approval and navigate toxic interactions. Through personal anecdotes, explore the importance of clear communication and assertiveness in your connections. Uncover practical strategies to foster healthier interactions, especially during the holiday season. Say goodbye to unnecessary apologies and hello to a culture of mutual respect!

Dec 12, 2024 • 40min
383. Reclaiming you: Boosting confidence and rediscovering your true self.
Bonjour beans! In this episode, I answer questions from listeners about self-love, confidence and navigating personal growth, especially after significant life changes like breakups. Order your Brain Journal here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Dec 10, 2024 • 9min
FOCUS: Maximise your potential & have no regrets
Explore the power of small, consistent actions in unlocking your potential. Discover how overcoming self-doubt can lead to personal growth. Dive into the paradox of choice and learn how simplifying decisions can boost your happiness. With practical insights, this conversation encourages proactive engagement in finding your passions and purpose.

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Dec 8, 2024 • 43min
382. Discipline will change your life. From chaos to clarity how discipline changes everything.
Explore how discipline can be a liberating force in personal growth. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-discipline and accountability for achieving goals. Discover actionable steps to overcome self-delusion and build trust in yourself. Personal anecdotes reveal how establishing routines can lead to emotional stability and mental clarity. Embrace discipline to transform chaos into productivity and regain a sense of control in your daily life.

Dec 5, 2024 • 29min
PT 2. HEADNOISE: Navigating awkward dynamics when your spouses (girl) friend crosses the line & MORE. Part 2
The discussion dives into the emotional challenges of relationship endings, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and enjoying solitude. It also tackles the tricky dynamics of friends crossing boundaries, offering strategies for reclaiming personal space. Listeners can learn about the value of self-love after toxic relationships and the need for self-reflection. Additionally, there's insight into building emotional attachments and the impact of verbal validation, along with tips for fostering healthier connections in love.

Dec 5, 2024 • 28min
381. HEAD NOISE: Friendship ultimatum - is love worth losing a friend over? Part 1
Navigating the complexities of friendship and romance takes center stage as listeners tackle friendship ultimatums. Emotional dilemmas arise when a romantic interest overlaps with a best friend's past. The conversation also dives into the challenges of introducing new partners to children and maintaining healthy boundaries with narcissistic family members. Emotional resilience is key as they explore self-preservation and recognizing toxic patterns, emphasizing the importance of mental health in all relationships.

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Dec 3, 2024 • 12min
FOCUS: It's never too late. How to stop the narrative.
Aging can be a liberating experience if we shift our perspective! Embrace the idea that it's never too late for new beginnings or personal transformations. Society often pressures us, especially women, to conform, but redefining your life narrative is empowering. Learn to reconnect with your inner child to foster personal growth and fulfillment. Break free from comparison and discover the joy of pursuing happiness at any age!