
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

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Dec 1, 2024 • 48min
380. Vision Boarding & visualisation: what is it & how to practice it effectively
Get ready to dive into the vibrant world of vision boarding! The hosts share a hilarious journey of crafting their boards, accentuated by amusing tech mishaps. They highlight the importance of a supportive environment and discuss how visualization can bridge the gap between dreams and reality. With insights into upcoming live shows and personal aspirations, the conversation emphasizes the emotional and scientific benefits of turning vision into manifestation. Buckle up for a creative adventure that inspires and motivates!

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Nov 28, 2024 • 23min
379. HEADNOISE: What do my dreams mean, starting a new job & more! Part 1
Explore the ups and downs women face before their period, with remedies and listener voicemails adding a personal touch. Enjoy a humorous recount of a Melbourne mishap, leading to discussions on sleep and dreams. Dig into the emotional ties of dreams from past relationships, with coping strategies for emotional growth. Address relationship intimacy through communication and compromise. Finally, tackle the challenges of personal and professional change while reassuring listeners that adaptability will ultimately prevail.

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Nov 28, 2024 • 30min
PT 2. HEAD NOISE: Overcoming Winter Blues, Maintaining Independence & perfectionism. PT 2
Winter blues? Not anymore! Dive into strategies for managing seasonal affective disorder and the importance of sunlight and routine. Discover how to adapt your exercise and nutrition for colder months. Personal growth shines as listeners share stories of companionship and goal-setting during the holidays. Plus, explore the delicate balance of independence in relationships and the dangers of perfectionism. Celebrate progress over perfection and embrace the season with a positive mindset!

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Nov 26, 2024 • 8min
FOCUS: Stop searching in others what is already within you.
Explore the journey of self-discovery as listeners learn to harness their inner strengths instead of seeking validation outside themselves. The discussion emphasizes personal accountability and self-sufficiency for genuine happiness and motivation. Find out how taking charge of your choices and relationships can lead to meaningful personal growth. Recognizing dependencies on others is key to tapping into your own power and potential.

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Nov 24, 2024 • 43min
Turning desperation into attraction and REALLY getting what you want in life (E)
The discussion begins with vision boarding and positive mindset strategies for the new year. It dives into the paradox of how desperation can push away what we desire, spotlighting self-sabotage. An intriguing look at local anesthetics reveals their critical role in pain management. The conversation then shifts to overcoming heartbreak, prioritizing self-worth, and embracing new beginnings. It's all about transforming emotions and reframing perspectives to create a fulfilling life.

Nov 21, 2024 • 24min
Head Noise Pt 2. Living with Painful family members, and change of career but I have just finished uni.
Welcome to Part 2 of this week's Head Noise. The Email edition! On this episode we go over: How to deal with controlling and negative relatives that you live with, where you have very little freedoms and it is affecting other relationships. What to do if you are just finishing your degree but already know you are passionate about something else but do not want to disappoint those around you by starting again. AND MORE. If you want to send in your email questions send yours in to info@dyfmpod.com DANKE. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 21, 2024 • 23min
378. Head Noise - Dealing with siblings who cannot accept you are gay, putting up with a persistent ex and MORE
Happy Head Noise day! On today's episode I am delving deep into your AMAZING voice messages. We go over: How to navigate wanting to maintain a relationship with nieces and nephews when the sibling does not accept you are gay. Navigating your first secure relationship where everything is healthy, and knowing if its just safe of if you really love them. Dealing with an ex who cannot take no for an answer. Thank you for sending in your voice messages, and if you want to send one in, go to www.dyfmpod.com to submit yours or if you want to send in your email questions send yours in to info@dyfmpod.com DANKE. Danke! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Nov 19, 2024 • 6min
FOCUS: 10 things you should know about yourself
Dive into self-awareness and learn to embrace vulnerability by confronting your avoided feelings. Discover powerful exercises to boost self-love and identify your unique daily non-negotiables. From personal rituals like meditation to quality time, this discussion inspires you to establish essential practices that elevate your well-being. Plus, there's a spotlight on an exciting language learning program to enhance your skills while nurturing your spirit. It's all about knowing yourself better!

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Nov 18, 2024 • 30min
377. 5 tools to quickly stop yourself from spiralling
Discover five simple and actionable steps to regain control when emotions start to spiral. Learn about the crucial link between vitamin B and mental health, and how including nuts in your diet can bolster your mood. Explore the importance of acknowledging feelings and celebrating small achievements to manage overwhelm. You'll be inspired to set holiday goals and embrace new language learning as a means of cultural connection. These strategies promise a path to emotional empowerment and clarity.

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Nov 14, 2024 • 33min
376. HEADNOISE How to deal with partner's outbursts, retroactive jealousy AND how to know when to actually take that leap of faith. - Head Noise
This conversation dives into tackling partner outbursts and how to handle jealousy tied to past relationships. Insights on transitioning from anxious to secure attachment reveal the importance of self-love and reflection before making decisions. The discussion also emphasizes navigating fears in decision-making and analyzing worst-case scenarios for personal growth. Plus, it touches on the unique challenges of maintaining relationships with partners who have ADHD, stressing the need for open communication and self-care.