
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

Jun 12, 2025 • 32min
422. Thriving Solo & Choosing Yourself First
Guys welcome to a Headnoise episode where I answer your questions! Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to info@dyfmpod.com. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Jun 10, 2025 • 38min
421. Live Show Questions - Imposter syndrome, big decisions, Tips for improving memory and more
In a lively discussion, the hosts tackle listener questions sparked by their recent live show. They share insights on navigating big life changes while preparing for twins, emphasizing the need for stability. Strategies for enhancing memory retention are uncovered, particularly the power of teaching others. The conversation bravely addresses imposter syndrome and the importance of recognizing personal achievements. They challenge stereotypes around change and encourage seizing transformative opportunities instead of waiting for a crisis.

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Jun 5, 2025 • 34min
420. Outgrowing Friendship Patterns: Reality Checks and Emotional Shifts
Listeners are treated to personal updates, including a host’s upcoming move and preparing for twins. The discussion dives into the complexities of friendships as life changes unfold, tackling how reality TV impacts mental health. They share valuable advice on supporting friends during tough times like divorce and highlight the importance of mindful media consumption. A single mother seeks guidance on breaking dating patterns, leading to insights on self-reflection and recognizing emotional maturity in potential partners.

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Jun 1, 2025 • 46min
419. Don't get rejected by the same person twice
Rejection is a tough pill to swallow, but there are ways to shield yourself from it. Building self-worth is key to recognizing red flags and avoiding repeated emotional pitfalls. The podcast dives into the connection between gut health and emotional well-being, challenging common beliefs about love and need. It explores the importance of emotional independence and how to spot manipulative behaviors. Additionally, it examines the fine line between genuine love and the fear of loneliness, encouraging listeners to cultivate healthier relationships.

May 29, 2025 • 30min
418. Tools for dealing with painful in-laws
Dive into the world of challenging in-law relationships with practical advice and humor. Discover how to navigate overbearing family members and set healthy boundaries. Listen to personal anecdotes about feeling judged and scrutinized, especially for newlyweds living in close quarters. Find insights on maintaining self-esteem and communication to strengthen relationships and reduce stress. This engaging discussion tackles the complexities of familial dynamics while keeping it lighthearted and relatable.

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May 25, 2025 • 50min
417. You are more than enough. How to feel it (6 tips) E
Struggling with feelings of inadequacy? This discussion dives into actionable tips to rebuild self-worth and combat self-doubt. It emphasizes the importance of discipline and highlights how isolation can lead to self-discovery. Acknowledging emotional pain is a crucial step toward growth, and setting boundaries in toxic relationships is essential for healing. Tune in for empowering insights and practical strategies to reignite your confidence and embrace the unique strengths that define you.

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May 22, 2025 • 51min
416. Narcissistic parents and in-laws. How to spot them and deal with them (E)
Delve into the complexities of narcissistic parents and in-laws, uncovering the key traits that define them. Discover the differences between covert and overt narcissism, and learn practical strategies to manage these challenging relationships. Explore the emotional toll of setting boundaries and the empowerment that comes with it. Plus, a thought-provoking listener question tackles the dilemma of relocating for love while pursuing education, raising the question of personal desires versus relationship sacrifices.

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May 18, 2025 • 32min
415. What is the alter ego effect and how to use it to become the person you want
Discover the intriguing concept of the alter ego effect and how it can be a powerful tool for personal growth. The hosts share fascinating insights into unlocking confidence by accessing different self-versions. Explore how embracing an alter ego can transform your identity and reveal hidden superpowers. They offer practical strategies for character creation, using physical anchors and rituals to evoke your desired traits. Tune in for relatable stories about life goals and the emotional journey of self-discovery!

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May 15, 2025 • 39min
414. Let go of the idea it could have been different (E)
Discover the power of releasing attachment to past experiences and embracing the present. Learn about hemispatial neglect and its effects on perception and daily life. Explore the challenges of treating fine motor skill awareness and how scanning therapy can enhance recovery. Delve into innovative brain treatments like prism lenses and the journey of neuroplasticity. Discuss the impact of fear on behavior, romanticizing the past, and the essential act of moving forward for personal growth.

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May 11, 2025 • 59min
413. The Life Reinvention Expert: 5 Small Shifts for Big Change with Robin Sharma
In this insightful discussion, Robin Sharma, a globally renowned author and expert on happiness, shares his journey from a successful law career to a life of purpose. He emphasizes the importance of small mindset shifts, effective morning routines, and self-identity in achieving personal growth. Sharma introduces a five-question morning maximizer and explores eight forms of wealth beyond finance. Highlighting the power of kindness and service, he encourages listeners to embrace discomfort for transformative change and find fulfillment through meaningful connections.